Friday’s ❤️ I just love Fridays sooo much ❤️💗❤️

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Friday’s make the week just soooooooo much better ❤️❤️❤️ melts it all away ❤️

So boys got here and we talking about the election stuff … they are extremely anti-Trump … I don’t say much to them about it… I let them have their own mind and decisions. They can think and believe however they decide to.

But yes – they are very anti-Trump…

We just can not get over the things he says and does, oh my goodness – it never ends

We kinda laughed cause he’s is just ridiculous with how he’s acting and what he says. Ya know – be an adult.

We don’t understand how so divided people are with this. How are people ok with how he does and what he says??

Then we spoke about Kanye 🤨😄… and I said if he tries to run in 2024… and people get behind that – I am moving to Canada! I be done.

My oldest laughed and said Canada isn’t going to want us all immigrating up there

And that made me laugh cause then I envisioned Canada needing a wall 😄 it was just funny – keep the Americans out lol

I showed them that hilarious YouTube video about the “Leave Me Alurn” 😄😄😄 I just can’t stop laughing about that!!

Then the subject switched over to feminism lol 😄😄…

So I explain to them, when you are a woman – any woman… men tend to just do stupid shit … you are hit on literally constantly… you have to be on guard at all times

Men sometimes “think” they are better than… equal sure – but not better than.

Now let me also say… there are equally awful women also so I am not picking apart men … but I was explaining to them how goes…

Men will sometimes make crude comments, things are always sexual, etc etc

So then I said… how would you feel if I didn’t know you and came up to you and say “hey sexy, how’s that hanging?” 🤨 or “you packin some heat there cutie?”

But I didn’t realize to men that sounds good 🤨🙄😄😄

Cause they laughed and said “mum of a woman comes up to us and acts all into us and tells us we have good package, yes of course we gonna like that” 🤨

How is this point lost???

But they did agree that men can be creepy in their approach lol

My oldest said there is a feminist group that says “death to all men” 🤨😮😳 he said when they start talking like that then he doesn’t want to listen at all… cause that’s not right – you can’t just say they all the same and wish ANYONE harm!!

And that’s true… not all men are bad, and same is for women

I told them how men are towards me and things that go on… I am your mother… is that even ok??? I am a mom!! But that still happens 🤨

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Anyway that was our feminist discussion. It was a little funny because my “how would you like it” did not work so well… cause they would 🤨🙄😄😄

Then they show me some video that was a Vtuber?? Pekoea?? 🤨 with a carrot 🥕 … most annoying thing ever!! But they thought hilarious 🤨😝😝😝 not at all!! It goes right over my head … was gonna be a 10 minute video and I say omg please no… that is torture … so they stop

They show me Minecraft’s new update coming … all the cool new stuff – I like that ❤️❤️❤️

And then 19 wanted MegaMind Ⓜ️… but daughter did not…

She will have him play with her and do things she wants … with the promise that she will watch MegaMind … but then she doesn’t 🤨

So he was a little down about that … so I took his side… let’s watch MegaMind

Oldest didn’t really want to watch either because is hour and 1/2… but he will do whatever we all wish – we do what he wants too…

So we watched MegaMind … both hilarious and I forgot all the awesome rock music it had in it ❤️❤️❤️

** Do not watch this if you haven’t seen yet and plan on seeing… this is a awesome movie clip but also HUGE spoiler 😘✌️

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And the moral of the movie is… your destiny is what you make it … it based on the decisions you make for yourself ❤️❤️ I love when movies have morals and are funny too ❤️❤️❤️

*** ALSO a Spoiler *** only watch if you have already seen or will not be seeing … but it’s a really cute awesome movie (2010) … this will spoil movie if you have not seen it yet

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So that was a good night ❤️ to hang and chill after so much drama crap today… ugh 🤦‍♀️ drama.

I work tmrw … hopefully all by myself 🙏✌️ not that I am antisocial or anything – but I would like some peace at work possibly tmrw 🙏 … also please no one die!! 🙏🙏🙏

Anyway I should get to bed. Early morning… and it’s cold… I will have to force myself out of covers 🤨 I just want to hibernate through winter!!

Gnite 😘❤️✌️ boy am I exhausted 💤

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Oh my gosh!! Today is fluid 😳 and I didn’t even work lol

Boys be coming shortly. Woo hoo ❤️

Today I did job stuff – and I was lining up references cause ya know jobs want those… so ok – I’m gonna pull my top ones…

So I turned to my police guy lol… the one I am close to… he’s a really good friend and he is funny – our humor matches … we have really good banter

I said “hey… so I want a new job… I love the job but is only part time and far away, I want full time and benefits…”

I may have worded the next message wrong lol 😄 … cause I said “so I was just wondering if I could use you as a reference? Be honest – always be honest”

I always check first – always always always!!! I don’t want it to be a problem.

And he writes back “you can use me any way you want” 😄

I think he is half joking lol 🙄😄 and he likes to make me blush anyway … he definitely always makes me laugh – I was being all business and he likes to mess me up … and he’s always trying to get me to go out with him. I am just not ready – I always tell him that… he knows – he’s very sweet to me ❤️

So I have one police reference – known me for 7 years

I have one reference – known me for 22 years…

And then my former principle – known me for A year lol

I can do more if they want – but usually the standard is 3-5. More is available upon request ✌️

So I will just have to see what happens with the work issue… and what their offer is. I do love that job…

But I have back up in progress just in case

Btw… it a fricken fall day today 🤨😝😝😝😝

I was cold, I had to have a jacket all day!! Kinda overcast most of the day…

I had no idea today was going to be so fall and so crazy and it was a day off lol

Ok I will be back later after the boys leave

You won’t believe this 😮😮

The shit just hit the fan lol omg…

So MY boss on vacation … and you know how we been hurting? Like really bad and the situation is horrific?

Well it is… it’s really bad. With lunches, hours all of it… we are imploding

We are told upper management knows and says “deal with it”

So… MY manager on vacation… the head honcho is in…

So… when I couldn’t work all shit hit the fan and it all came out!!! To upper management – the girls said everything – no breaks, no lunches, no staff, won’t give me hours nothing

And the staff told him … Trisha is a diamond – you gonna lose her…

Last week … we have a girl who does nothing – she doesn’t work at all and won’t no matter what you say to her… we can not fire her because we need that body… we are desperate – we are THAT desperate and this girl knows it – so she does nothing …

Last week a family called in with a death… on her watch… she did nothing… because that would require work…

I came in the following day and the family calls in again and says they just called the hospital and their loved one had not been picked up yet…

The hospital told them they needed a release from us – which is normal protocol … so I acted like ok let me find that file and get that release right out to you and we will get that handled by docusign…

I took his name number and email… he said we handled his mother 2 years ago

I pulled up her file and looked at it got information from there

I went into computer to pull up the new one and there was nothing… so I looked around the entire office for the paper file… also nothing…

Ok so I had half the information … but where was the new one??

So we called this girl at home and asked about this call… she said was imminent that’s what she said the family said

That is a flat out lie because the deceased died at 3am… that call didn’t come in until approx 11am – that is not imminent

And even if was imminent YOU NEED TO TAKE that info!!!!!! The family calls you for a reason!!!

So then I had to call the family back… tell them the hospital did not relay the info (they usually don’t – it should have been taken from the family) it was not a hospice case

But I had most so I was able to get the new info quickly – get that in – get the documents and put them through docusign (that was while that telephone guy was there last weekend)

And she still has a job. We can’t afford to lose her – if we lose her it’s more pressure cause we down another – we don’t have enough as it is

We are seriously imploding

So I call in… and I am told about everything that happened …

The head manager had no idea this was going on… he had no clue.. we are just being told he says deal with it… he was upset

He said bring Trisha on – I will ok ANY hours and if we need to bring her on board we do that 😮

Whoa 😮

Now I don’t know what to do lol

So I called him back got his vc mail left a message. So we see what happens

Omg my manager gonna shit when back from vacation 😳😮

And how/why keeping this?? Why not say how bad is???

He is also getting pressure from his higher ups.

Whoa so that’s a development 😳

So Veterans Day … because of Veterans Day we had to have ALL hours in by last night …

Because they had used me for all the hours already – they had already told me – I could not have Friday. I would have had to already put in hours for Friday and that would bring me over the hours I am allowed – big time… putting me in full time category … but they don’t want to usually do that because then they need to give benefits

And like I said they already told me no… I am not home – I am out and about – I have been out doing job things, as well as personal things

One calls me at 8:30am can I work… I would not get the hours – I would not be paid… cause cut off was last night and again they already use all my hours and told me no.

So I had things planned you need to give me notice and I’m not working for free – not for that shit

Then I explain that I can not and everything I just said there

No sooner do I say that… then another text me from another one of the homes and ask if I can work 🤨

Again I have to explain all that. And if you want me so bad – give me full time and benefits – stop limiting my hours.

Then my phone rings about 12:30pm … from a number I do not know… I do not answer those … if you want me leave a message – I call back…

Well it is the manager guy ABOVE my manager 😳😮

He say… we need you – we let you have more hours next week… so touch base and we see – please talk to so and so and then call me back

Ok so do you or do you not want me! And are you willing to pay for that?

And I drive far so if we only talking a few hours but still stay under – it’s gonna have to be worth my while!

So I will do that shortly. I am not at beckon call unless you think I’m worth it – then prove it. Put the money where your mouth is. ✌️😘

I have other stuff about other stuff too lol – I will tell that later – I have to finish few things so I can get home

And yeah … I do drive a hard bargain… because I am worth it, and I am sick of the shit. ✌️

You want me to give you what you want … then give me what I want. I don’t ask for a lot and I work very hard – if they can’t appreciate that then we got some issues lol

So I will call her and see what they want and then I call him back. Let me see what they offer… they will absolutely have to make it worth it.

Ok so there is a job… they want to know why I have employment gap… but then they say… don’t include personal or medical information

Ok??? Well how the hell am I supposed to answer then???

Fricken breast cancer 🤨🤨 how do I explain without saying that or was medical issue 🤨🤨😡

AND then … they want to know if is ok to contact my current employer … 😳😳😳

I don’t have a problem with that really?? Sorta???

I am a good and hard worker … but my worry is … if they know I am looking for another job… before I can get one – I don’t want retribution??

Yeah yeah – probably against the law, but many things against the law happen.

I’ve seen it go on… and I don’t want it being miserable or anything until I can get out.

So that kinda worries me…

So then do I tell this job – no don’t contact them…

Cause then I look shady 🤨 wtf

That sucks – how do you handle these things ??

How am I supposed to not say I was out of work because of breast cancer – if you gonna ask me about that gap… that’s what it was – what else am I supposed to say???? There was nothing else – if I wasn’t sick- I would have still worked 🤨 and what else am I supposed to say??? You gonna ask that – that’s what happened 🤨

And then… I don’t want to appear shady, because I am not… but I also don’t want to be blacklisted or have retribution

Don’t tell me that doesn’t happen… yes it does

So what to do??? Why can’t I just say what is!? Why they have to make this so difficult!!!

So… fuck it – I’m gonna tell them it was breast cancer – cancer free now – if that’s an issue – then screw you

And then … no you may not contact my current employer – I currently work there and do not want any kind of issues

Yeah I’m gonna lay it out like that 😡😡😡

They either gonna want me or they won’t … what is meant to be will be… but I am annoyed with those questions

What is the gap in your employment ? But you can’t say any medical issues or personal issues? Oh yeah wanna bet? Cause I’m saying it!!! Wtf is that?? How else am I supposed to do?

Oh thought I would just do nothing for a reason I can’t tell you 🤨😡 yeah I am annoyed with that

So I am gonna say everything… tell me to explain but not let me 😡… I’m explaining

I just made myself all mad lol 😄✌️

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I can not wait for all this election stuff to be done with – I am really tired of 2020!! Please count ALL the votes! Good or bad just do it. Also I really hate how divided we are ☹️💔 I am exhausted by that

In the meantime, got my car situated… that is all completely squared away… the new one anyway…

The old one… well I don’t really have the time to deal with that… so I do believe I will just do the pick and pull… that way also – it won’t come back to haunt me… so I do think that is the best way… I won’t have to deal with anyone or much with it… I can remove it from my name and insurance. That will have to wait until next week though.

So that takes care of the cars…

Also been handling jobs today… but I can’t report on that until something happens with that.

I do have to handle lawyer which I will do shortly… I just have to send an email.

Ok so car, job, lawyer… ugh I need to do doctor ☹️ … I do not want to do that one. I hate that one. But let’s go ahead and be a grown up 🤨😝 ugh I just don’t like it.

I want to do anything I can to avoid… but then I also know “I HAVE to” …so I am going to force myself to handle that. Just do it – get it over with! Bleh

I do everything else – I can do that.

It kinda makes me feel sick to do that 😝 but ok just do it … suck it up and handle it. Bleh – I cringe

Car, job, lawyer, doctor, what else?? I feel like I am forgetting something?? What am I missing?

I feel like I am definitely forgetting something?? I don’t know. If I am, I will eventually realize it when it’s in my face. 🤨😄✌️ hopefully whatever it is comes to me before that happens 🙏 … but I think I am pretty solid with the main stuff I need to be.

Anyway… I was actually looking for something on YouTube lol… and instead it recommended a video for me… was an SNL video… I have not seen this before, but it made me laugh so much … they are sooo funny

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That made me really laugh … omg

Anyway… tmrw is Friday ❤️❤️❤️ I do not have to work because they way over worked me already. Beyond what I was supposed to do, so they can not have me again “at all” until Saturday

Boys be here tmrw ❤️❤️❤️ woot woot

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It’s actually November 😮 … although it doesn’t really feel like November? This year didn’t really feel like a year, like it normally does – it felt LONG and annoying lol but ya know… very different

All the holidays have been different too.

This is one of my favorite things for the holidays ❤️ because every single year – THIS makes me smile ❤️ no matter how hard the year has been… this always just makes me smile ❤️👇

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I wish it was Christmas today! ❤️

It will be different also… have we learned anything this year? 🙏

Whew – almost made through 2020! We almost there 🙏❤️

I have few more things to do today… I have been busy today.

So I took my car in first thing this morning… took it to my new car guy… I don’t really know him well, he has just worked on my car.

They were going to do my oil, change the spark plugs and just check over the engine.

He says to me – you got a ride?

Nah, I was just gonna grab a coffee somewhere and just wait…

He says “in this neighborhood!?” (It’s the “hood” lol)

I said “why? Is there not a coffee place close by?”

He say “c’mon we go get a coffee, I could use one too” 😳 (I always wear my mask)

So he took me to Starbucks, bought me a coffee, we chatted in car… he said the mechanic he works with used to do cremations – I said well my cremations are done at such and such place … and he says that’s where his mechanic used to work 😮 what a fricken small world lol 😄

We came back to the shop… and he said I could sit at his desk… so I sat in the visitors chair in front of his desk

And he sat AT his desk lol… I thanked him for the coffee…

We chit chatted while his mechanic worked on my car…

He told me about this woman who is like his daughter – she was the daughter of his ex girlfriend… and the ex girlfriend gave the daughter ultimatum – you choose him or me, can’t have both… so the daughter chose him 😮

He has a heart cause he has helped her out a lot…

She doesn’t sound very smart? Not to be judgmental or anything … but here’s the issue…

This woman does not take responsibility for her life and lives in a dream world 😳 that’s not going to go well.

Just according to what he said.

We talked about my cancer – he also had cancer and is doing ok… I do not like the kind of cancer he had… I hear that – and it makes me instantly worry – his was prostate – that one sends a fear through me

He also had heart surgery, and told me about that. He is fine now… I am not sure how old he is??? He is not old? Very much? Lol – maybe 60? I am not sure – I suck at guessing ages

The whole time we talking his mechanic just going to town on my car… and he is ordering all kinds of things for my car and they doing this and doing that

It has to be done so I had to do it anyway… if I have a problem – I will talk to my landlord. I was expecting to be buried. I was really worried. But I will deal with whatever it is…

While I was there – all kinds of people came in to bring him food. He asked if I wanted any, no I was fine lol – I had the coffee ☕️

I spent the whole morning there!! And he just took the time to learn me? And his mechanic installed all kinds of new things and fixed things

He said just a few things that sent up a red flag for me?? I dunno – he is really really sweet… but he sounds very umm?? One way or no way?

I got that vibe a little anyway. I was laughing and chatting but I still kinda observe and listen to what you say.

That one way type thing – sends up my red flag 🚩

He’s really sweet, good heart, nice guy …

So I have my credit card out 💳… ready to pay… kind holding my breath cause I see him writing down numbers and using calculator … whew ok … what is the damage?

He only charged me $190 … for changing oil, spark plugs, all new valve cover gasket and well seals, plus fixed my alternator belt…

And then he says… I see you again in 4000 miles lol 😄😄 you are aware I drive a lot right? Lol – so next week then lol – kidding lol

But yeah he is really sweet. He seems like a good guy.

He’s very sweet to help me along like that. But I am also very careful

I’m not really sure how much that “should have cost”? But I am sure he did not charge me what it should have been. All that… plus labor? Only $190 ?

Anyway… I have few more things to situate currently – I will be back later ✌️😘❤️

The dinner went really awesome…

I wore just a classic black dress. It looked really good, it was form fitting/flattering… I wore shoes that I don’t usually use lol … I love these shoes though👠… they are heels lol … I am really tall in heels… they are really pretty – also black but they have a ankle buckle… they look hot – I like the hotness lol 😄✌️ (I just never wear them because it makes me so tall and at work they would slow me down or kill me lol – they are only for special occasions)

But I looked really nice 👍 funny only the neighbors see me lol 😄😄✌️

I, of course, had a black mask that perfectly matched lol

They kinda laughed with the mask but I am just used to having it… I took it down to eat.

I am so used to always wearing a mask I feel weird without it unless I am at home. They are lucky I was not also wearing the face shield 😄😄✌️

We had a very nice dinner… they kept giving me food!! Omg I am so full!!

They also sent me home with a ton of food…

We chit chatted and caught up on our happenings – and laughed about a ton of things

It was really nice – they are very very sweet…

They want to do a game night or have me hang with them every so often lol ❤️ that was sweet for them to want ❤️

I am just limited cause I can’t do weekends… my days off are during normal weekdays lol

They asked me if I play “Cards against Humanity”

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I have not… my boys have, so I have heard of it and what it is 😄😄 … and we have a family friendly version – but the family friendly version is lame lol – so no one ever wants to play it lol

I know Apples to Apples – totally love that one lol 😄❤️

But this Cards Against Humanity – hmm I don’t know lol … we can see how goes lol – I am curious??

They say is funny ?? My oldest and 19 – have said it will NOT be a game I will like lol

We are just going to have to see I suppose

So yeah that was really nice ❤️

I guess they want friends and company lol – that was very sweet

I’m usually kinda quiet… I don’t really go out or do things lol

I was with my ex since I was 17… I was a mom since 20… I didn’t go out… I was a wife/mom. Play dates for kids yes and sports … I have friends …

My marriage was rough so I was quiet

Then I got cancer… they forced me to give up my entire life through that… my world was doctors and hospitals constantly 😝

So during that, I couldn’t have a life at all … and that last surgery was traumatizing so I went silent, isolated myself

Then literally right after that, covid happens so here we are lol

My point is – I don’t know a social life. I am generally just kinda quiet – have my life and absorb my peace ✌️ I have my kids

I socialize at work with dead people lol (kidding) but I socialize with my coworkers and the come home and just be quiet

I’m kinda cautious lol

But it was nice to have a social dinner like that ❤️ was very nice, very sweet, and lol very funny ❤️ I had a nice time. 😊

Do you see me now? Lol 😘✌️

So they want me to kinda dress up? Lol which I can totally do

They just want a really nice dinner? Since you know no one ever gets that currently… she is all dressed to 9’s lol

But I am realizing since I normally only dress up for work…

That all my dressy beautiful stuff – is little funeral-ish lol

Omg – I need new clothes lol

😮😮😮 did not see that at all, until just now lol

Ok so I am the weirdo Funeral girl lol 😄😄✌️ omg

I dress all funeral’y … I bring home flowers 😄😄 omg

Had a very nice day off ❤️

I guess having dinner outside at neighbors house shortly??

They must be lonely or something? They are very kind. Just a little confused why they want me over for dinner so bad?? But whatever – company I suppose … but they don’t have to go expensive … I did suggest that sub place I just found – cause now I am obsessed (it was soooo yummy!)

https://www.firehousesubs.com

😄😄 that’s all I crave at this moment lol … I found something I like and I want it lol

But the neighbors want expensive ?? So ok whatever – I like that too 😄😘✌️ I just don’t like wasting money like that. So that’s my thing lol (I’m not paying they already tell me no, I already say I can’t… they say they pay)

So whatever, that is very nice. Will be a nice fun dinner

I’m just not sure of reason? Maybe because they are sweet and haven’t seen me around cause I’m always busy? They are good people

I should not look into the reason and just enjoy life. ✌️

Tmrw I will be bringing my car into shop for him to do oil change and change my spark plugs… I like this new mechanic guy I have now – I trust him 😊

It’s funny when I call – he answers little sternly lol … then I say it is me… and he’s all sweet 😄

He just tell me bring in whenever I want after 7:30am lol … oh … I don’t have to do appointment lol

I am not sure how long that will take I did not ask

I don’t know him well… I am normally a teaser… but that’s only if I know you and I am comfortable with you … lol

Otherwise I am little shy at first, kinda quiet… observe

But he teases me… right away in a serious manner ?? Lol so I’m not quite sure how to react 😄✌️

Well anyway – dealing with that tmrw

Still watching the presidency … 🙏 not saying one word until done 😘❤️ then I will say everything 😄✌️ kidding maybe

Alright – gonna shower and get dressed cause I lounged today lol … I should probably put clothes on lol 😄😘✌️

I be back later tonight to tell about dinner 🥘 ✌️😘