I am at work… I can not stay… only giving information passed to me today from one of our meetings …

Moderna… they evidently did EXTENSIVE testing – that the others have not done.

Moderna will protect you against covid and variants – what their tests are showing is that it protects you from catching AND also prevents you from being a “carrier” and spreading it – seemingly so far, on all variants!!

This is what they are “saying” so you are aware to think for yourself also – stay protected because lots of things are always “said”… you decide what you think … this is what we are being told here

We were told that even within 21 days of getting the FIRST Moderna shot you have 86% immunity …

Still get that second for complete protection!! Don’t mess up their vaccination schedule to be fully protected

Pfizer has not done these tests like Moderna… but the info we have on them …is that the shot WILL protect you, BUT you can still be a carrier if you get the Pfizer vaccine – meaning you could potentially spread – so be aware of that with Pfizer

And as far as Johnson and Johnson goes – they are too new and we do not have any information at this time.

Use your own discretion with you own self – I am just sharing what we told this morning.

I do not always trust things and covid teaches us that life can be fluid – meaning changes constantly! So … right now that’s what they telling us

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It was LONG 😮 they had soooooo many questions for him. Both financial and otherwise!!

He was asked if I took care of the kids so that he could work and further his career …

He said yes, but he also said he could not account for every second of my day 🤨 – Asshole

There were a few times where he would get angry at my lawyer who kept a neutral tone… he would explode really quick and then apologize for his behavior

And then a few times he would get mad and say I am not answering that – and HIS counsel would step in and say “this is their deposition, they ask the questions, if there is an objection that is one thing, but you are required to answer all their questions – you can not tell them no”

And then he would answer

We were in a zoom meeting with this deposition… he knew I was there listening because lawyers had to name everyone in room or that could hear.

There was a court stenographer in there recording everything said.

He lied on many things so that works for me ✌️

And I learned things we can use – which we will. He should have taken my offer – whatever

So let’s see what a judge is to say

Friday I believe is settlement conference but that should be fast… because there is no settlement…

I offered – he countered with shit… so no

Let’s see this battle now. Let’s see how mighty he is, now that I have protection ❤️

It was long … from 9:30 until about 2:30 all questions 😊👏 I loved his explosions, his assholeness, his condescending ness … just show you who he is ❤️

His colors are showing ❤️❤️❤️

And then when asked about his current positions – he stumbled… he said things and then changed them, and then went back and answered again

And then he was uncomfortable answering simple questions. And at times madly defensive.

What’s a matter? You trippin?

So went really well ❤️ I felt sick all morning … and then I just sat there and took notes for myself and listened. I wrote a few questions I had him ask about. It went well 😊👏

I am used to things with Satan being horrific… this was first time that afterwards … I do not feel like throwing up and I am breathing normally ❤️ ahhhh

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Oh and I do have a dumb story – and this also will explain why I do not like to be out and about 🤨 I just don’t like that

Ok so I am driving … I will not look over because I do not like making direct eye contact because it causes me problems

Is best if I look forward and just pay attention around me – not at people in cars next to me

But I had my windows open – in my little blue thing lol 🚙 😘💙

Then there is a fricken ass red light 🚦🤨… fine whatever I’ll stop lol ✌️

Well dude next to me with a buddy driving – in a jeep yells out “hey!” …

I fricken turned 🤨 dammit… do I not learn???

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Evidentially not… but in my defense – it catches me off guard 🤨🤨🤨 stop doing that!! Don’t be like “life” lol 😘✌️😄

Ok well anyway… he says HEY! I fricken turned, and he says hello beautiful can I get your number 🤨🤨 … as he hangs out his friends ride

Ok… first of all… No … definitely not like that!!

And second this song hit my brain lol …

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Dude!! 🤨 … not even speaking in terms of money – how about some class? 🤨

Do you see what it is like being a woman??? This is why I hate being out there, because of things like this.

You can not just pull up in the car beside me and say HEY 🤨

Lol… that is just too funny – I also thought of this:

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Because I zoom 🏎 away ❤️ gimme that green ❇️

I don’t know how someone would catch me to try to know me… I make that very difficult lol … I stay pretty secluded, do not really give the time of day… just because I do not want any drama – I like my nice little peaceful life – I like it, that way!!

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So I don’t know 🤷‍♀️… I kinda feel like if meant to happen it just will, but I do make it a little challenging

And then if they do try to talk to me… I am polite … but I never accept – I will try to get away as fast as possible 😮 I will look for my escape

I do not really know how NOT to do that. It is like instinct!!! Totally instinct! My instinct is to get away as fast as possible 😮

So how would someone approach that? I am not sure? Good luck lol just kidding lol

But I dunno?? You would have to approach easy and slow. Then I am not so on guard. Or already know me somehow

A person better be sincere though …or do not even step to me. That’s a rule lol 😘✌️ … also maybe not hang out your best friends ride, while yelling “hey beautiful” 🤨🙄 that might work for some women, but that’s gonna go back to knowing your target 🎯 😘

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All in all it was a good day ❤️

First time ever, after handling Satan I am not in tears, trying to breathe or having panic attack ❤️❤️❤️ 🙌

Cooking dinner then I can read ❤️🙌❤️

I can’t stay… I’m sorry – this week will be bad.

I have lawyers tmrw … I have homework tonight – I feel sick

They were gonna have me be in the same room with him – but I couldn’t breathe, my heart just races and I wanted to throw up – I can’t – I just can’t

So instead tmrw we zoom

I don’t have to be on camera

We offered him a decent settlement … but being who he is… he turned it down… and rebutted with nothing

So I said bring it before a judge then.

All he ever says about me are all lies … and you should see how bad they are!! He makes me just want to always cry. He’s so awful 💔 thats why I call him Satan – he’s that bad …

Satan would be an angel – next to him.

He says every possible bad thing you could think to say about someone – he says that about me – to literally everyone and puts it in court papers too to try to taint their opinion of me… so ok – do your worst.

I do not trust and I am scared and terrified – but I DO finally have a peace knowing I have a lawyer who is fighting beside me ❤️ and he’s honest and caring … completely showed me all lawyers are not jerks looking to take your money – some actually care and truly want to help. ❤️ I finally have a good one ❤️ but he even uses that to say I am bad…

He says is because I am such a bad person they just won’t work with me… the first one filed nothing on my behalf and responded to nothing leaving me completely defenseless and homeless with nothing – took my money and didn’t help me – I am reporting them to the California State Bar.

And the second one defended me but did not fight for me because she was not paid – I had nothing to give her and he was ordered to pay legal bills so he would pay her $20 here, $10 there … not enough for her fees … she helped me until covid and she retired and left it all on my lap!! Moved to Boise Idaho … just said “I’m retiring and moving to Idaho, you are on your own” and within a short amount of time she was gone – remember? I had to keep asking for extensions and the courts allowed it – remember I fought for that? And he didn’t even show up? Covid had just started shut downs – do you remember ? I went and he didn’t – the courts gave me the first extension … and then I asked for another while I obtained legal counsel – I do not understand their paperwork in the slightest – and my case is GIANT!! GIANT!!! There is no way I could have defended myself against him

This is my last one and my last chance of anything so – we see … this one is actually helping me and fighting for me

Both this one – and the one I had prior … did cut my fees to them… she gave me a low rate … and my current lawyer never charges me…

He will spend 2 hours at a time with me and I don’t know if he forgets but he he never charges me ❤️ he has done this several times – I once tried to cancel on him because I knew I couldn’t pay or keep up with it…

So he tell me … you pay me even just $10 a month… and I will stand beside you… don’t cancel – so I did not cancel and I went to see him at his office. I was scared though because I was afraid that it was just over and I was done. But he didn’t let that happen ❤️

He hasn’t charged me since and I keep putting money in there

I still do have money in the retainer trust thing… but every month I pay him $50 at least, more if able, so that he stays with me and I continue to have money going in there.

I pay every month … they even say to me “you still have money in your trust account, you don’t need to pay” I always tell them – let me pay… if at the end you do not use, you can refund. (But they deserve it anyway, because they help me ❤️) I would rather have it that way then be at any mercy…

And do you remember me telling you about a guy in that office? Ugh 🤦‍♀️

Well one day my cell phone rang and because I always talk to him when I initially call – my stupid phone said “maybe it is this person” 🤨 so I answered “hello this person!!” All cheery

But it was not him… was some woman in that office, who then chuckles 🤨 and said oh I bet you wish it was him, it’s just me sorry 🤨 … no!!! Not like that at all!! It was my stupid phone!!

I am sure she told him about that!! 🤨 stupid phone!! Now I don’t trust that “maybe whoever” thing it does

Well anyway … today he answered and I sort of explained why I can’t see my ex directly, it causes me too much issues.

And he says… it’s ok, I am working tmrw – I will be here tmrw … I am not really sure what to think on that

And he’s really sweet to me and says really sweet things like … well he doesn’t work on my case – but he knows my case – they all do. And he always makes a point to say something about what I have been through and my strength.

He’s been through something but I don’t know what? But he always references it up against mine … and says things like his is nothing compared to mine 😮

I can’t imagine what he has been through – I am also very cautious and not overly trusting especially with men so I keep a distance – I am very quiet anyway – maybe he tries to pull me out? I just smile a lot – but I am quiet

😮 at the time I spoke to him I was scheduled to be in a small conference room with my ex so I was panicking – nope 👎 I can’t do that, but his words were very kind – when I panic I am breathless I go very slow to catch my breath and breathe correctly – you can tell in my words

But they changed that for me ❤️ I am safe now ❤️❤️❤️❤️ zoom only – I can handle that.

But I do have homework because I have to defend myself about his lies – that way my lawyer can catch him in all the lies and I don’t have to say or do anything

They will pause meeting to speak with me privately if needed so I do not have to speak ❤️ thank you for that ❤️

Alright so I am scared and nervous – he is still attempting to bully… so it will be fine. I have made it this far.

My coworker today has a similar story she shared with me – I had no idea 😮 and so in me – she sees it all over again.

The same way seeing someone go through cancer brings up all those rush of emotions … is the same here as she watches me go through this. Hers was also really abusive 😮 very similar to mine!! 😮😮

But anyway… we see

It is going to come down to literally good vs evil so showdown time.

I have tmrw and Friday of this week and then the 29th and 30th

Those will be my moments of sheer panic – but I am also almost done, I can handle it

My coworker said to me… one day he won’t have fear over you and you won’t be afraid of him anymore. I can’t really imagine that? But we see – I wish for that 🙏❤️

I have to go 😘✌️ Gnite

Ps also… you never know in life what another goes through – you might see their smile and their happiness … but do you know what they truly go through?

So good vs evil – ready? 😳

And pps… I am taking my name back ❤️❤️❤️ I am so thrilled to have “me” back ❤️❤️❤️

Alright… well I am having myself all incredible and organized {{{{{ YAY! }}}}}

You should see my organization system and files ❤️ I could just stare at my awesome system all day!! I still have more to organize but omg ❤️ everything will be organized ❤️❤️❤️

I took a mess in December – and I am almost completely organized ❤️❤️❤️ also don’t forget I was learning too!! By myself mostly!! I had to hunt people down on the phone to ask questions

So… I did that ❤️ woo hoo! ❤️

Ok so I have done that…

But then we have something called “outreach” 🤨 which I don’t like …

Ugh 🤦‍♀️…

I do one thank you…

And I do one hello 🤨

The thank you will go to someone who really helped us ❤️

And the hello is to nursing homes, hospitals, doctors 🤨 … so you remember our name and think of us.

I do not like that one… I feel like I am hunting death. Bleh

I want to do something with our name logo on it.

But what would be good for a funeral home? I thought of an umbrella ☂ ?? “We’ve got you covered in your time of need” lol (do I sound creepy? I am not sure?)

But they are expensive – so that’s a pass

Key chain flashlight – “let us light your way, in the darkest hours” ??

I want something pertaining to the business and cute ❤️ I want brilliant

I want to be better than ALL the others lol ✌️😘

Because there are those advertising campaigns that are just so brilliant you never forget them… for the rest of your life – you remember their words

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I want to give things to make you see our name over and over – and then once that’s in your mind – I want some clever little saying to make you smile or impress you – and make you remember my words lol

Hmmm how to do this 🤔

Definitely refrigerator magnets – see our name everyday – and then when you need us… our number be right there ❤️ so yes on that one. I love magnets ❤️

I have a magnet collection – I collect magnets. But only certain kinds. And I do not like them on my fridge 😝

Instead I have magnet boards and they look like art instead ❤️ I love magnets 🧲❤️ (only certain ones – I only do place magnets … magnets from places I have been, loved or my friends get for me… has to be place magnets – saying the place and with some kind of meaning of that place on it) ✌️

But I always used those business card ones on the side near the phone, they held photos, and drawings lol… you see it every day … if you need it – is what you think of.

So yes on magnets – I don’t need a saying for those… they are awesome by self ❤️

What else would be a good little trinket from a funeral home?

Hmm 🤔 hand sanitizer? I could maybe do that? “Be safe, we’re here for you” lol … ok that one was little bit creepy lol

Ok so magnet… hand sanitizer… maybe key chain – I love those too… have our name dangling from your keys – yeah that ❤️✌️

Maybe some chocolate? I will look into?? “For when you need comfort, we will be there”

But none of that wows me – it only gets our name out there… I want wow – I want you to think of only us because I wow’ed you …hmmm 🤔 what would wow??

I don’t want to be creepy but I feel creepy lol … how to wow without being creepy lol …

Our box of 2021 survival lol … that’s cute ❤️

Masks are too expensive – I already looked but it could be worth it if people be wearing our masks 😷 … so I will have to think on that. That would be cool to see our name on your face lol ❤️❤️❤️

That be some advertising and stuff! I would like that.

“Like a member of the family, we keep you safe”

I’m still not being wow’ed 🤨

Hmm… I don’t know?? What is something appropriate, brilliant, clever, but not creepy… for a hello from a funeral home ?? Ugh 🤦‍♀️ lol …do you see my dilemma ? It is creepy for a funeral home to say hello lol – or at least in my mind it is lol ✌️

Hi… the death people here 👋

I have no idea what else to say without it turning really creepy!! Lol (obviously I would use our name and not call us death people lol)

“When you care enough, to get the very best, give us a call”

I hope I don’t have to be really social – I do not want to go be social. Ugh 🤦‍♀️ I really don’t want to be doing that.

I am after peace and calm – not socializing. That will bring many things I do not like!! 🤨

I socialize, but I don’t want to go places and do that lol … I socialize just fine locked away in funeral home with my funeral people lol ✌️😘

I have done this socializing before – I like not being known and I like not being out and about.

If I am known then I don’t have that privacy I want. I just want to be quiet. And then also… there are things I just don’t want to deal with ✌️😘

But whatever I think we open more this week?? 😮 ok. 😳

So country boy wants me to relax 🤨 thinks I am a girl with emotions lol … duh…

Only a real man can handle that 😘❤️✌️… I work at a funeral home … how I not have emotions???

…but what I want… is really important to me. So that is my thing. I am solid, without hesitation, with what I want. If he can’t do then there it is. End of story. Cut and dry no?

He can think is no big deal – but to me it is.

You can’t convince me otherwise – it is futile – I am solid… I will not listen to you if I am solid and you still try to change. I am solid on this. So not changing.

Not the one, if he can’t handle it.

Whatever. It’s important, so either understand that, or don’t.

I am absolutely solid

I am not sure what his whole deal is … I also do not like this in my life one minute and then not… and then back… so what? What do you want? Do you want to be in my life or not? Cause I’m not wanting stupid crap. I don’t have time for that.

So what want? Cause is always gonna be no. I want what I want.

When I find that – then that’s my one ❤️ “needle in a haystack” lol … but I don’t wanna waste my time if is not right. And it isn’t, so why waste my time? It’s not moving forward otherwise – again – I’m solid.

You give me what I want and then I relax. Otherwise nope.

And then omg… today at work… a guy calls … he is doing genealogy 😄😄❤️ (I have done this) … all he wanted was information on the cemetery.

The file would be from 1971 😮😮😮 … before I was born!!!

So I excitedly tell him let me check and call you back

We still keep those files – you should see how they did that back then – it is just absolutely stunning to see and lay eyes on and read … omg … I love history so I am a little nerdy in that area ✌️

I was able to confirm the cemetery … but the mystery doesn’t end there…

This cemetery… you can not find it?? Even if you Google? But I believe it to be the old city cemetery? I think I am right??

But now this mystery is killing me… where is that cemetery? What was the address? I’m pretty sure I am right but not totally?? I want solid proof lol I want to know exact. Not just possibly!!

This is what I think is:

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So I had history today and adventure lol … plus a mystery!!

Those old files are incredible!!! ❤️ I am fascinated by them. Museum quality ❤️ totally!!

Just looking at them is amazing!! I could just sit there for days looking at those!! They are really amazing!!

It is pouring rain at this moment 🤨 …

I made it home from work, walked in the door and it began to downpour 😮😮… it waited until I got home lol 😄❤️✌️

Ugh such heavy heavy heavy rain!! Omg – please no flooding 🤨 ughhhh 🤦‍♀️ winter lol ✌️

Ok well… work and stuff again tmrw … here comes Monday 😮

Let me look at my forecast… 🤨… ughhhh 🤦‍♀️ my commute will suck… rain… I should leave early

Omg the rain is just so hard!! Just pouring

Ok well I need to get to bed. This week will suck.

March is never a good month – of course it is very long 🤨 taking forever!

Ok Gnite 😘❤️

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** from yesterday ** I fell asleep writing because yes that happens …

Friday was fun… was good day 😊❤️

So I had to leave hotel 😩 ah well – was good stay/workcation lol 😄✌️ very much enjoyed ❤️

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Because I smile that entire video ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Chevy Chase is like my idol ❤️ I love him have always loved him

Also Bill Murray ❤️ brilliant ❤️

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Literally that entire movie cracks me up ❤️ he is sooo funny!!

Ah well anyway – there is a smile with that totally ❤️

I am working tmrw (Sunday) to cover some days I might miss for court this week.

Ugh my stomach turns with that. It makes me feel sick

Anyway… moving on … the kids tell me all about this dumb “Grotto Beasts” thing 🤨🙄

Whatever – it doesn’t even exist 🤨 but whatever good little market campaign lol… just kinda dumb to me but whatever

You will just have to Google – there is just too much 🙄

Then we played this guessing word game?? I forget what is called??

There were words and we were in teams 😄

Only one person on the team knows the right words and has to say one word and see if teammate can guess what word is associated and correct.

It was fun – we won one and lost one … I was with 19.

*** I wrote this last night but fell asleep – sorry ***

Yesterday I handled few personal things.

And today I worked which I will make a new post about shortly. ✌️

I have issues this evening 🤨 why on Thursday??? This is supposed to be Friday Eve!! 🤦‍♀️

First my location had death calls – which is fine cause we do need business but go slow… do not go crazy like before!!

But on top of that – one of the others I am on call for… their phones are down 😮😮😮

So not sure if any calls are coming through? I don’t think that locations calls are coming to me? 😮😮😮 uh oh 😧

I informed my boss and the office manager of that location so they are aware – there is nothing we can do at this point even the phone company is closed!! 😮😮

… and then there were 2 😳😮

Omg down phone lines 😮😮 for a funeral home 😮😮😮 not good

That sends panic

But what can we do at this hour? If by chance I get a call on their line – I am to give them my bosses cell number for direct contact

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For 2 for sure – but I am not sure I am getting the phone calls for the 3rd 😮

Ok well there is nothing I can do. I am possibly just one call away 🤨

Stupid phone company! It is them. They had issues all day long today!!

Well ok. So I am sort of on call if you can get me 🤨 … at least I am getting mine and the other one.

Still though if anyone does die – I can’t help them 😮😮😮😮

So yeah that’s a little panic.

But again nothing I can do. Breathe lol ✌️

My last night in hotel 😩 lol … fine – I got a little spoiled 💋

Ok so sorta being on call and going to go to bed just incase I get deaths or other things tonight 😳 I don’t know how sleeping will be? I do need sleep and the bed is lulling me

I want to savor as much as possible of my final night ❤️

Damn – that went fast!!!

Gnite 😘✌️

I have been getting death calls tonight – what is the rule??

“Not on Thursday!”

My mother’s father… I called him “Granpa” … we were not as close to my mother’s side as we were my fathers. They were still in our lives but not closely like my dads side was

He was goofy, just a big goof lol … he was also Irish lol … he had their family name emblem… or crest whatever 🙄😄 painted – yes literally painted (I believe HE did it) on the side of his truck lol 🙄😄

Both my Irish sides would say we royalty 🙄 – but I think they full of it and is just an exaggeration lol … story tellers – they always say that 🙄😄 … I always rolled my eyes lol … both grandfathers very Irish 😄😄 … it was always a competition who was MORE Irish 🤨🙄 who was the better Irishman lol … whatever – that’s why I rolled my eyes all the time lol

The names are very well known Irish names / fathers side: County Mayo & mother’s side; County Cork …

But anyway my point with Granpa was that all his life he would talk about calling all his friends that were still alive in the year 2000 and be all excited to say he made it…

He died December 21st 1999 😮

That was sad – the one thing he wanted and was so simple, but life would not let him have it.

His other dream was to donate his body to science – but by the time someone found him it was too late to do that. So he didn’t get that either 😔

You don’t get to chose and it’s just gonna happen whether I want it to or not. Bleh

I be back 🤨 stop dying!! No Thursdays!!

I still want to put that out into the universe just incase I have special wish powers or something – I always hope for that 😘✌️

Ok well – worked late – then ate… it’s so easy because I am right by work – it’s like awesome 🙌 … I don’t have to worry about time because it does not take me over an hour to get home – it’s like I take 3 streets and I’m there 😮😮😮😮

And the entire hotel is always so clean … and the bed – it’s like a cloud ⛅️

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Eh eh A…. Like that lol 😄😘✌️❤️

I am ready for month end tmrw – whew!! Ok – done – also got our hearse back in one piece after having service lol

I am almost done with all my fire requirements ❤️ woo hoo ❤️

I getting it straightened and my girls have been amazing ❤️❤️❤️

I am also getting a mega desk ❤️

So work is good (knock on wood …because please don’t ruin that!!)

Earlier today, country boy texted me. 🤷‍♀️ He just said hello and asked if I was doing ok.

I said I was and asked the same.

He’s doing good

I’m not really sure what that is all about, but whatever

I haven’t changed my mind.

So I don’t really understand what his motive or point is? What is the point of texting me every so often?

I guess we are friends? But he’s just not in my life? He just does that? So ?? He’s not lonely for friends or people so??? I just don’t get it – what is the purpose? Motive? No idea ??

So whatever – I just don’t understand?? State your purpose lol ✌️😘 but not really sure what his deal is… he has his own life… I have mine

Sooo??? Is not like we have huge convos or anything lol – he just says hello, he asks how am, so I do the same and that’s it? Every few months he does that

I am a little deeper than that so I do not understand that purpose? you want me just to always think of you every few months? Not forget you?

I don’t forget him – but I also take a very hard stand on something. So I do not understand his actions, he is well aware how I feel about something.

So I will hear from him in another few months… and the convo will be the same?? Lol

I do not understand at all ??

It is POURING rain!! We even had insane hail!

It was coming doing like the whole sky was falling!! 😮

Well I have to go cause tmrw I will be busy too. I can work later and then I come back to this amazing bed… and then I melt away 😮❤️❤️❤️

It is very hard to keep my eyes open – I have to go anyway

Gnite ✌️

It did not seem like a Monday today… everything went pretty well lol ✌️

First a warning… for those in United States 🤨 … just FYI – if someone calls you and says they are with IRS OR Social security – it is a scam

The social security one will call and say your social security number will be suspended due to suspicious activity – DO NOT FALL for it. It is NOT true!!!

If you are that concerned – hang up on them and call social security directly (or IRS or any company they trying to scam you with – watch out for phone calls and emails or texts – they are scams – do not click on them)

You would get letters not phone calls – C’mon this is the government, they aren’t going to put effort into phone calls. Scam scam scam!

NEVER give out any information like that!!

So there is that.

Work is going well. Today was average – nothing crazy … and I am finally digging out and getting organized ❤️

I worked late because I am right by work. I also have month end coming up on the 10th for the month of February … tons of reports they want

… and … I will be audited after April 10th – my first time … so let’s see how I do 🙏🙏🙏

I should be ready 🙏✌️

I will be audited for every quarter for the next 2 years because the office manager before me was the one who was trying to handle all 3 locations… with no support!!

Anyway, she failed my locations audit – so now my location is audited for next 2 years no matter who has it. So I will be on it ✌️

Not a big deal I have everything. And actually helps me a little bit because I get used to audits and can back it so that is good.

So yeah work was fine.

Then I stopped at grocery store to get few things to eat for the week so I don’t have to eat out.

I don’t really have anything going on?? So I finally get to read for little while ❤️

Oh and also… a local cremation place … they are NOT part of my corporation … they are this cheap cheap cheap cremation place..

They were on the news the other night because evidentially they gave someone else’s paperwork with the ashes of his mother…

The tag on the ashes matches his mother – but no DNA can be done because she was already cremated.

Only the paperwork seemed wrong… which would be the “permits” … YOU must have a permit issued at time of burial, cremation, or transit. The state needs to know where the final resting place of the decedent will be.

If you have one urn, and 3 necklaces containing some of the ashes – then you will need a permit for each thing containing ashes. (It’s annoying)

But anyway… they mixed up the paperwork 😮😮😮

So what is the moral of that story?? “You get what you pay for”

I understand death is not always at a good time – and some have no choices… make sure you check your paperwork with your ashes. You are also welcome to ask for any paperwork you sign… such as the cremation paperwork. Etc

So if you can’t afford more than some cheap cremation place… you will have to be your own advocate.

I know it is hard when you are grieving – that’s why is better to have a preneed for both funeral and cemetery – you can write it and pay of little by little so when that time comes – you don’t have to freak out and you can just mourn, not having to turn to cheapest.

If I told you prices – you would run out and do that preneed!! You look at car prices, and home prices, do you look at death prices?

I know many say they don’t care what happens once they are dead – but you do not see your family or loved ones after your death… you do not see them devastated and trying to handle paying for a funeral on top of grieving.

And if you have no family – don’t you want to have a final resting place? And be at peace? Is up to you… do what you feel is right for you.

So just be careful with those low cost cremation places.

Oh yeah and one last thing before I go… my daughters school district just said they are getting worse and cases are starting to climb again, if it continues they shut back down – please do not do another wave … don’t get too comfortable!!! This is why I say dont open – not yet!!! Don’t do it!!! I don’t care if your state lifted your mandate – I would still mask. I might always mask now

Before covid when I would see someone with a mask they were either really sick or I knew that China and Japan have worn masks forever …

So now… I think I just want the mask. I do not trust people. I will keep the mask. 😷 mandate or not… and I also do not care that I have been vaccinated – I still do not trust.

So whatever – be careful – please don’t make the cases explode again 🙏🙏🙏 ugh please not again 🤦‍♀️ oh that makes my stomach turn… dear lord please 🙏🙏🙏 be careful – it’s still not safe!!

But ya know – do people listen?

Anyway… that’s it. Off to read ✌️

Gnite 😘✌️

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