They match what I want, are immediately transferring seasoned staff…

I went down my list and say what I thought and the problems I see and the hell I have been through

They promise me anything I want – they do not want to lose

Increase is more than other position and I got increases across the board for other staff that is core – I told them if can’t take care of own family – how take care of others and I want a company that matches my morals and ethics 😮

I say I lay it down on Monday after thinking over and discussing with my family 😮😮

Gasp 😮

I will try to be fast? So it probably be all short lol – omg so much stuff everyday!! I don’t know how to be short at this moment!!

Let’s see …

Guess who is coming to see me?

https://youtu.be/vWaRiD5ym74

Yeah … corporate 👏 so we will have a nice conversation. I’m impressed thank you for coming to listen. Appreciate.

Ok so there was that…

And guess who I am going to see… 😮😮😮

OMG – one of my friends “asked” me to see Train 😮😮😮 you have to ask ?? Lol … hell yea ❤️

https://youtu.be/TaG9SDxwPBg

https://youtu.be/oxqnFJ3lp5k

https://youtu.be/kVpv8-5XWOI

https://youtu.be/7Xf-Lesrkuc

https://youtu.be/A3Qvb7q9Nm0

https://youtu.be/zftcZYdOl3Y

And of course:

https://youtu.be/J5qWnG5RQTk

I think my heart stops for a moment lol 😮❤️❤️ thump thump lol

Cause you guess that my smile is engulfing my face 😮❤️

Omg

Play that song ❤️👏👏👏

😮😮

So that’s coming 😮😮

My life is levitating for a minute 😮😮😮

https://youtu.be/TUVcZfQe-Kw

Whoa 😮 🤯

Hello Friday Eve 🙌 Good Morning 🫶

https://youtu.be/mGgMZpGYiy8

Today on my way to work … the following songs came on… in this order:

1.)

https://youtu.be/MrHxhQPOO2c

2.)

https://youtu.be/NOGEyBeoBGM

And then as I pulled up to funeral home – this song came on:

3.)

https://youtu.be/K3SA5Z-cbC8

So is that my vibration ? Or is that life sending me messages lol 🫶❤️ I love music 🎶 – you can reach me there 👏👏

Anyway… I walk in get ready for meeting…

We have service today… contract not posted at all -no obit… nada 👎 family complained about obit … I am crippled

A funeral home is only as good as it’s staff – I have to depend on her to do her work or I can’t do mine!!! No contract, no payment, no obit – nada

It is ALWAYS some excuse

She always has some sort of drama going on – but yet accepts zero responsibility for ANYTHING!!

Let’s see… she’s having problems with her downstairs neighbors – her mom flooded her kitchen and they are on second floor – so she has to find another place asap!!

She say to me “ can I have militaries number” ?

I said yeah just gimme a week and then I will text it to you. I just don’t want problems … just let me get out and you got it. One week

She say… no worries I will just go into the contract and get the number

I said “As a friend I would not do that to you. I ask you to wait one week and you can’t to that?”

I don’t want to be stalked – just let me get out

And she says … not everything is about you 😮😮

That’s when I said “do what you want and believe it right … I’m taking the day off – have a good service and enjoy your day” 💋

I walked out… called my boss … said I am taking day off … and then I say what happen and what’s going on – which I already went off about yesterday. My boss was fine with that.

Alright … so I have the fuckin day off ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏

Not my circus 🎪 have a great day 💋

Omg a day off ❤️

https://youtu.be/h4DFXUndvbw

https://youtu.be/cwLRQn61oUY

https://youtu.be/mXvmSaE0JXA

https://youtu.be/w9gOQgfPW4Y

They playing games … he had my boss come and try to convince me to stay.

She said how am I supposed to convince you, when I don’t believe myself?

I said you tell him… I want closed door face to face meeting and then I will lay it out, why I leave or what I want … period – he can come here it from me directly if I am so suddenly important … come face that music 🎼 come talk to me – see why I turned in resignation and come see what I want.

They playing games – and speaking of raise – it’s nothing she even said. So that’s why he wouldn’t say how much was – yeah I’m good … it’s not worth to stay and go through all that…

It won’t change I would still be doing everything and this man they hired will be in meetings constantly and not available – so I be busting my ass while he making bank – F U on that 👎 I held you up… yeah come see me… come talk to me… come find out what I want – come on … show me I’m worth it

So yeah they playing games to buy time for me to lose the opportunity

And sending my boss to try to convince me to stay? She couldn’t … you come talk to me corporate … don’t hide behind a middle man – you be straight shooter – point blank. Don’t fuck around … cause there’s your problem

Lol … see I just had to absorb everything – and also see how they were gonna move

They done for? Cause I really don’t think he have the balls to come see me… let me tell you how it is here – let me educate … yeah come see me

Also come hear what I want …

So corporate – you gonna know what you got? Or you gonna fuck yourself? – cause good luck

So their choice

Ya I am not opposed to playing hardball, I was taught by corporate – byyeee 👋

Come talk to me, come hear what I want

You gonna miss me – know what you have 💋

https://youtu.be/hFVuuRxM2VU

And mic drop 🎤

💋

Never ever underestimate me ✌️💋

I turned in resignation …

And higher management called me … they talk to me briefly and asked to speak to me again after work tmrw.

They ask for the chance to fight for me – I will see what you gonna pay … but will have to be worth it.

I did not expect that at all. He plead with me to give a chance

This is gonna come down to money. I have not rescinded anything yet.

Also – question to ponder – why it take the threat of me leaving? Why you not appreciate before? I have been here at this location since July of 22 and it has struggled. I have done everything humanly possible to make this location work. Pretty much by myself.

He said Trisha – I trust you, I trust you running that location, you have been essential to that location.

Ok so then tell me this… why you wait until I am breaking and ready to leave, before you think oh wait – you are valuable, please don’t leave … I have to give resignation before you know what you have?

https://youtu.be/ujwm8YrEgI4

(Just take out the love words because that is not at all work related) except for my love of the community and location – if they wanted to keep me so bad why wait til this? Recognize before

I come out of domestic violence so ya know I am one who always wants to believe it will get better – I have to threaten to leave before it does – and then who’s to say? I have been in that position before

He pleaded with me so I said, I need tonight to think and I also wanna know how much plan to increase – what am I worth to you??

He asked if he can call me tmrw after work – because will be away out of town with all the massive management.

I said yes – I will speak to him tmrw after work

😮😮😮😮 whoa 😳

And then just now my staff call me and say “hey you at funeral home?” I say no I just got home…

And they say something about a first call and can’t reach someone? I guess removal team there – she want me to go to funeral home and get the info for her

I can not… I have groceries being delivered shortly and I have to get daughter after that – she’s at school practicing for a MaMa Mia play she is in ❤️

So no – I can not do that right now … I do actually have somewhat of a life.

But see – and today was rough as hell.

So no – if you need it – go get it.

Also she took that first call before leaving work at 5 and never told me. I knew nothing about it. 😑 you NEED communication in this business at all times – we are supposed to be a team!! She killing me!

Ok so we see what they think I am worth then 😮😮😮😳 I’m willing to listen

So this has been a day 😮😮

I say it twice because Monday had 2 sides… one sucked … and one did not.

I don’t even want to talk about the suck! I’m done with it – not my problem anymore…

Guess what? I got the job 😮😮😮 I’m leaving 😮😮😮 … omg I’m leaving 😮😮😮

Well for another 😮😮😮 and I don’t have to deal with bullshit anymore

The bullshit is NOT at ALL from families – I’m just tired of supporting a coworker and doing her job, as well as many other things – I’m tired of excuses and I’m tired of doing everything and not being appreciated – I’m out ✌️ peace ☮️

I am gonna miss my location and this community and it’s people – but I am done with the bullshit

Omg – I’m leaving 😮😮😮 I’m actually leaving 😮😮 I’m getting out 😮😮😮😮

I will be free from these things 😮😮

The day has come 😮😮😮😮

I have to do a letter of resignation 😮😮😮

No more massive pressure or doing anyone else’s job. No more excuses from coworker who could care less!! No more being under appreciated – not my problem anymore!!

I am giving respect and doing a 2 weeks … but that’s it – and then my start date is May 1st!! 👏👏 … so I will have almost a week of not working to get my own affairs in order and then I start new job 😮😮 I’m actually going to have SOME time off – 4 days – but woo hoo!! 👏👏

Ahhh the weight off my shoulders!!

https://youtu.be/Eo-KmOd3i7s

Sorta … I’m sad to leave the location and MY community – I love very much so that is bittersweet

But I’m leaving for more money and better conditions 😮😮 they are gonna flip

But they just hired some new guy they paying $72000 to run – so have at it … it’s too little too late – and anyway it would be same … they would make him be in meetings all the time and not be available and I would still have to do everything anyway!!

Enjoy… not my monkeys – not my circus anymore

… I really do love that location and the people… but I can not take the pressure of having to literally do everything!! And then not making much to run that entire location!!

My current coworker is young and she’s always calling out or some excuse why she’s late or has to leave early and I’m literally doing thousands of jobs but not paid for it!! So F that! Bye 👋

I can’t even take a sick day or a personal day!! My time is not my own and I have zero help or support

So yeah – I can’t do this here anymore and I do not trust the company to raise my pay or appreciate that I have held this up since last July!!

I am sad to leave my community and go to another

But excited for new adventure, making more money, having ONE job, and working with people who actually care and being a team, not handling other peoples things

I hope this be good move 🙏🙏 I do think is, I will be away from doing literally everything!!

Tomorrow I will be turning in letter of resignation 😮 so tmrw will be little nuts 😳 little nervous how that will go down …but I’m sure be fine.

https://youtu.be/rE1oIhSgTgI

😮😳

Soon maybe I will have my life back 😮👏❤️

https://youtu.be/koVHN6eO4Xg

😮😮😮

2023 gonna change it all up 😮😮

https://youtu.be/XjFsZj1aHow

😳😳😮😮

I need to replace my washer and dryer …

I love Samsung… but went shopping this morning at Home Depot and Lowes…

Lowe’s is cheaper but if you want my money – you gonna price match that shit 😘✌️ or I walk away

I learned that Samsung had issues with their top load washers starting fires 🔥- I definitely do NOT want that happening

https://www.cpsc.gov/Recalls/2023/Samsung-Recalls-Top-Load-Washing-Machines-Due-to-Fire-Hazard-Software-Repair-Available

😮

I think I will go through Costco – cause they are cheaper than all!! And give me extended warranty, insurance, will remove and haul away my old stuff… and be way cheaper!!! 😮 *

** plus I do not like to feel like I am at a car dealership with sharky sales people – no thank you … I just wanna see myself – please leave me alone UNTIL I come to you. If I have questions – I will find you. But DO NOT jump on me the minute I walk into look… back it up!! You will lose a sale on that reason alone – do NOT be like car salesman – is fricken appliances – let me look and see what I like and want before you jump and attack

I just have to figure out what I want.

I do really love Samsung appliances… I have a Samsung Fridge and LOVE it ❤️ is HUGE ❤️ And works amazing ❤️

So for washer I want at LEAST 5.2 cu ft… and a large dryer for comforters and things – 7.4 cu Ft preferred

I want top load – I currently have a front load – and I’m not the biggest fan at all … I do not have issues with mold or anything – I clean it always and I leave door open between washes – but I just really do not like the front loader – please load from the top lol ✌️

Currently the one I have now, has an error code – which is telling me computer is bad – so F that – I’m done with it… is a Kenmore anyway – I don’t like it

It won’t take comforters so I have to go to laundromat for those currently 😝

So… I don’t know what brand to get and I don’t want it to be a fortune either – I still have to do my fence!!

I can do maybe $1,600 for both. Nothing more than that. I want a decent set – cause these will be “it”

My brother does not like Samsung – he has LG and loves it – he said he had a Samsung and it did not last for them – they do not like Samsung washer dryer but have other Samsung things

Their LG washer and dryer sings songs lol 😄😄

https://youtu.be/5Y7rj98trow

My best friend said that he has Samsung and everything they own is Samsung – they love it. I told him about the fire problems – but if Samsung is aware then anything being sold at stores at this moment would be fixed and not have that problem. Was recalled so they can no longer sell models that would cause the fire without a fix. Is illegal to sell a recalled unfixed product.

And I have insurance, both on my home and this… would have warranty, and free delivery, free set up with Costco

Does anyone have recommendations or thoughts ?

I definitely need to replace soon – not a rush – but laundry is very annoying right now lol ✌️😝

My washer is dead – no pun intended lol … it came with the house – dryer is fine – but I just want matching set since I will have them for long time. (Hopefully) 🙏

https://youtu.be/y7KwHMzWTME

(Also speaking of insurance) should I get earthquake insurance? My homeowners insurance say they have earthquake but is not currently on my home and not required…

We usually do not have earthquakes you feel – once in a blue moon 🌚 you might feel one if is shallow enough and large enough – but is rare – I think last time it was in 2021 – my area is not normally rocked

But this is also the 2020’s and I don’t trust this decade. Maybe for peace of mind?

I always remember watching Paradise, CA going up in flames 🔥 … and some had no insurance and literally lost everything 😮 … many even lost their lives (thanks to PG&E) so ya know – you gotta cover yourself just incase right?

The BIG one is coming – we just don’t know where will hit … Nor Cal? Or So Cal? 😮 … they have been saying that for a long time – but I never want to tempt fate lol – only for good things lol 😘

There are small earthquakes everyday – that’s normal – we don’t feel them usually

https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/plate-tectonics-ring-fire/

I live on the ring of fire – so … maybe just smart idea to have ?

https://youtu.be/dZ13TZk5eH4

https://youtu.be/1Osyw6Svv8U

First things first – laundry … any thoughts on brands – keep it moderately priced ✌️ … if you have advice 😘✌️❤️

Then I worry about the shakin

https://youtu.be/_wjFahULCK8

😳😳 just please try not to shake it 🙏😘✌️🙏😳

https://youtu.be/Yz2LLbTkGog

😮😮😮

This is one of my areas 😮 I go here 😳😳 I don’t live here, but my new job will be there

Also it’s spring break 😮😮😳

Sigh 😞 … I wish this would stop. It won’t – cause it happens so often and they never do anything. They will fight about it … but not solve it.

Tougher gun laws are not gonna help you… they NEED to make stricter punishments… sorry but yes. Cause what is the deterrent? There is none – and mental health is issue today… and if they were serving an arrest warrant – the person already committed some kind of crime to have a warrant … and if cornered in a grocery store parking lot that was a possibility 😮

Now this will be all over my news – and then when they arraign the person in court – that will be on the news too… when it should be about the victim who died… tell me about THEM – not the coward who used a gun and killed an innocent – he was willing to shoot a police officer

Stop making jail a vacation from the streets, stop the courts from being too soft, and stop making the shooters celebrities!!!

Your stricter gun laws are not gonna do anything – what they care? Get a good lawyer, have some vacation time, be a celebrity – it’s just ridiculous

I went to watch news one day and saw was a school shooting recently in Tennessee – so when are we gonna handle this? Can I have a system that handles this before more die and it gets worse? It’s already out of hand – hello – you are handling wrong!!

You can disagree with me and that’s fine – discussions on how to fix is good… I just would like it to stop, and think they do it wrong

Now a family just lost their loved one 💔 you never know when your last day will be – “cherish” the life you have

Life is precious!! It only takes one moment to be taken away!! You never know

This is a good city… very family oriented – good place to raise a family…it can happen literally anywhere cause people are hellbent these days

So protect your citizens! Can we stop this please???

And you wonder why I like to be away from the world ✌️😘