So I kind of observe and just listen.
I like everyone. I am very easy going and relaxed.
People tend to be very comfortable around me very fast… and also freely tell me things – everyone does this… I know many things that others don’t.
If is personal things – it is not my business and I keep to self.
Everyone tells me everything 🤨 I am just there and that happens 😳
So I know things … and then sometimes I learn things about stuff and because I know things I can see situation little better and see how could be from?
Sorry I don’t mean to be cryptic
Also… when it comes to how I take a person… I take them how they are with me.
Someone else may have issues with them, but if they are good with me – I don’t have a problem personally – I will make my own decisions with how I feel towards someone.
And I am also protective … and I like everyone. I don’t want any sides – just let me be with that – I am very neutral
When I was little … my grandparents were huge in my life – they didn’t like my mother because she took their son away from them – but my father loved her.
Anyway… I would be with my grandparents and they would speak really badly about my mother… I was a child. I have always just listened ✌️
I knew what had been said, knew how they felt …
But that was my mother, I love my mother with my whole heart – there was no way I would break her heart by telling her what they had said. Nope. So I kept it.
Families do that I guess – or I suppose I should say people? People do that.
Anyway that is an attributing factor as to why I keep what said to self.
I can see things when people tell me everything… I can see what could be causes and the more stories they tell… the more I piece together the puzzle 🧩
It is strange.
I will still take each person as they come at me…
And I do really like them all!!
I just know a lot of things in every direction 🤨
I like to just be happy, come in, work, laugh, be done, be happy and leave lol ✌️😄 see simple – no shit, nice and easy
But drama – I am not sure how to figure them out.
I am just not that way. That makes things too heavy for me.
I am the buffer…
Because I currently go well on both sides … both sides work really well with me so let’s hope that continues.
But there is a severe line between both groups? I am sort of smack dab in middle 😳
Both sides tell me stories about the other 🤨
Anyway whatever – I am just mentioning. I step carefully here – both sides are like land mines 🤨