Someone I think very highly of… really really highly… treated someone else I know, inhumanely 😮
I’m a little heartbroken with that because I believe them to be an amazing person. So I was surprised with that??
How do you be that horrible to anyone??
I hate Satan – but I stay away… I do nothing, I say nothing – I keep clear. I just don’t want anything to do with Satan – you be you, I be me. I want nothing to do with and stay far away!
And then … the people I work with – I love them… they are pretty awesome!! We work together daily! They are like family… I spend more time with them than I do my actual family – I work a lot.
So in that aspect, what do you want? A good environment or toxic?
This person I think highly of is extremely close to me… I am shocked that this person treated another soooo badly 😮😮
And then… look, I don’t want to be involved … I do not take sides… but this person sent me text saying careful who I befriend 😒
I am not befriending anyone. I am just doing my own thing and I am just kind to everyone – period. I have to keep my own peace and I still have to be with all these people.
And frankly, no one gonna tell me who I can or can not be friends with – think again. If you have a beef – that’s on you … don’t try to turn people against others – that’s not right.
You shouldn’t alienate another person – and that person did nothing to deserve that kind of treatment.
And after this person treated another really horribly!!! Really really bad … if I had been in that persons shoes – it woulda made me cry 😮 it was harsh!! I can’t even tell you how harsh and mean 😮😮
So that’s kind of a thing.
There is no need to treat another human being so badly. If they don’t get along – then fine – just do your own thing… you don’t have to be mean.
And I’m sorry… I am not like that… and I won’t alienate someone just because someone else has problem with them – no way. I’m not going to be a party to this child-like attitude.
So whatever. I am disappointed and heartbroken. But oh well. I did not know that this person had toxicity like that 😮 I guess that’s what breaks my heart?? 💔
It’s been handled – somewhat – we see
It’s a severe A type personality – which I love because is always on it. But A type personalities can have issues with free spirits – this other one is a free spirit.
I would consider myself hmm … I think I am a free spirit … I am pretty laid back? And do my own thing… CD But I am little perfectionist in certain areas – or ocd or whatever … I don’t bother anyone with it though, it works well at work… because I like it clean. I am hard worker
The one who is free spirit is young and a decent person. Maybe struggled little with the amount of work? As in, didn’t understand all responsibilities and is for largest.
But still – you don’t have to treat someone so badly for any reason. 💔 I don’t understand it?
So I dunno… I’m not going to exclude anyone. And I’m not befriending anyone… but I am being a decent person … if they got problem with that – not my issue. Don’t deal with me then.
I’m gonna tell you right now… if anyone – I don’t care who they are … is being treated badly – of course I am going to care for them, and stand up!! People don’t deserve that … I’m not going to make someone feel bad or crappy because someone else doesn’t like them. Yeah I don’t play that.
People are human beings ya know.
I’m just disappointed. Little surprised. 😮 it’s the meanness that’s takes me back a little?? I have not known this person to be so harsh and so mean. They have always been amazing ??
So I don’t know. I do know this person has many stressful things happening. Both work and personal… so maybe the stress? I dunno.
It’s just heartbreaking to know someone treated someone so meanly and so harsh. It was wrong and uncalled for. Extremely harsh
So whatever. Like I said, been handled.
And then country boy… well he texting … why keep coming around? What is it?
In 2022, I will have known country boy for 8 years 😮😮 whoa 😳… he knew me when I was married… and saw me go through literally everything.
I call him country boy because he’s really really country lol … not that there is anything wrong with that… I’m just really different – not country, although I love the country… but I am girly, not a bug or snake person… I don’t hunt – maybe fishing – but I don’t eat fish … I won’t put the worm on 😝 or take the fish off. So I will just hold the pole lol 🎣 and maybe catch something but ya know … “girly” … make up, lotions, perfumes, clothes
We are NOT from each other’s world. He is a baseball player. He travels alot – and then on his off time – does country things like hunting and fishing.
So… anyway… he has always been pretty kind… and would take my mind away when my dad died and my family was dying … and then also when I lost my mom to Alzheimer’s and myself with the cancer …
He was kind and had a heart through all that. Always was a gentleman and not an asshole – usually but that’s not to say we have not had it out lol ✌️ because don’t lump me in with judgement just because I am woman – yeah wrong thing to do lol –
So we have had few moments … he has his own quirks because a few women mistreated and hurt him… so he has that. Which I have never given any reason to think I am that way. I am not.
I am also not the type of woman usually in his world… and he is not a man that I typically would know 😮
I met him 8 years ago, he was out with his friends for someone’s birthday 🎂… I happened to be in same place … I was having dinner with my friends
He came up and approached me… normally I am tough with that, because it happens all the time… usually I just say no thank you. I didn’t know who he was.
But he was cute, and when he came up to talk to me, he was humble and very kind… not typical jock asshole – he was sweet and did not push anything on me. Just a nice quiet guy.
He has a peace about him?? Not sure if it’s the country thing or because he so different than what I am normally around? Dunno 🤷♀️
But he is a jock and also country lol … so he’s kind of a Trump’er so lol … we do clash there
And my world sooooo different than his. Really really different.
And while he’s always sweet and kind to me, I just never see him. And I really do not understand him. We aren’t on same page. So 🤷♀️
But then he stays around sorta – so what is that?
I think he likes to make sure I remember him?? I really have no idea.
I don’t see him at all… but he texts every so often to say hi and how doing?
He is way way way more of a serious person than I am… I am playful… I joke around alot, laugh alot- I like to lovingly tease lol – I tease nice – never to hurt. Just playful.
He is more serious. And doesn’t let his emotions come out ever lol 😄🙄 whatever, he is funny in a serious way lol
We can be friends. I’m ok with that. He’s a cool guy. But I just watch his motive… because he’s different.
I do not believe he is looking for anything serious or whatever… and we have talked about this – we are not on same page. So there is that.
I’m fine with him as a friend but not more. We are too different and want different things.
But he always keeps in touch. I don’t reach out, he does. I am just quiet – I work a lot… my focus is kids and work. Just easier that way, and I am rebuilding so… I just do that.
I don’t reach out because I just let him do his thing… I know we aren’t on same page.
So whatever – I really don’t know.
Anyway… it’s been a long day. I work a little tmrw… I have to – I am manager and I have reports that MUST be run on December 31st. Can not be run sooner and can not be run later… must be December 31st 🙄
And then all my end of year reports and things 🙄
I am tired 😴 … always … so much goes on always!!
Once I am done with all the new house things and end of year, and handling whatever else – then it should slow down. 🙏🙏
Just a little longer 🙏🙏🙏
Can we PLEASE do a one week shut down in March? For one week?? To commemorate Covid
The whole world should do that for one week – no nothing …
No killings no bad things – just shut down like 2020 for one week – so we always remember
Not to mention – reminder of what we went through and also little bit of a break lol
I miss when the world stopped for a moment – can we do that together again????????? 🙏
I’m always gonna ask for that! Lol – because I really want it!!
And I know you don’t always get what you want ☹️ …sometimes but not always…￼
But it is good to remember what happened and where that put us 😮
And if we all just take one week and isolate then maybe it will also help? 🙏
I really do not see a downside to this holiday I speak of … World Covid Week 🙌 WCW lol
For one week – just one week!!! 🙏
It sounds amazing to me!!! I miss that… I miss being shut down with the world ~sigh~
I could also use the break. 🙏
Who would have that authority to put that in place? The CDC maybe?? CDC for WCW ❤️
Ok I am so exhausted!!!
People are complicated. It’s difficult to reconcile when people are admirable in one respect, but then do something that is hard to respect. No advice. Just recognizing that it’s difficult to balance these contradictory feelings.
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Yeah, that’s very true. They are still a respectable person in respect to what they do and how good they are at it…
But they were extremely vicious towards another who is a young and very soft person… so it was just a surprise.
Could have been stress?
Agree – do recognize the balance
Just made me sad to see disregard for someone else.
Thank you for your input 😊 appreciate the perspective