Disclaimer – every single woman is different… there is not a book to clearly tell you what we “all” want… you have to know the woman that you want – put some effort in to that. (Also don’t read those books about women that are written by men, they are clueless or biased) you can not lump into one sum.
What I like, is different than what my best friend likes (COMPLETELY!!) … which is probably a good thing lol ✌️
For me… when you approach – be humble, be a person. Be kind. Maybe funny, if you have that skill lol ✌️ definitely be respectful. That will catch my attention to start. Don’t come on too strong… let me think of you, remember you and want more. Leave an impression and let that simmer.
If someone comes on too strong, it kind of scares me a little and I back up… so keep it casual… take your time. Don’t be afraid… be confident but humble.
I don’t like arrogance, but I do like humility and confidence. If you can figure that out – you are golden… you will be in my thoughts.
I want to know you are strong and I will feel safe… I want to know you have a heart ❤️ and are kind towards others, and that I can trust you without fear.
Don’t try to own, change or control me. Please keep in mind – I am NOT a possession – I am a person. I will forever fight being controlled or owned. You will lose that battle, cause I will turn away immediately. You be done.
Be kind, gentlemanly. Definitely be a gentleman
Once you have my attention, and I’m showing interest in you… Be confident but keep it cool, mirror that interest (don’t over do) … make me feel secure in your presence. Make me enjoy you, let me be at ease with you. Let me want to be around you.
Give me a reason to be attracted to you… and you will turn my head.
Don’t come for me if you are not serious. That will backfire. I don’t want to play games. I will turn away instantly with the first sign of games. Not even dealing with that. You get one chance – don’t F it up with games.
Essentially, the big picture I want – is to have a man that can make me feel protected and safe… but yet also let me be who I am and actually love who I am. Supportive, caring, and honest. I want to be able to trust you. That is a big thing for me.
At the end of my life… I really want someone there to hold my hand … someone I won’t want to leave. Someone who can capture my heart – hit that heart string… and have me be secure in your love and devotion … it is very important to me… I will mirror that.
Don’t break my heart or make it bleed… cause I will want to avoid you, if you do that.
I am a communicator lol… so I have an issue – I want to be comfortable I can turn to you. If you listen well, and are thoughtful, I will be impressed.
I want to enjoy life with you, and make memories. I want to cherish small moments, appreciate life itself together. I want to have a lot of fun with you!! I want to feel life with you.
I am on the romantic side lol ✌️😄😘 but is ok if you are not… any effort with that is romantic. If you are… you will blow my mind. Make me melt… Most have no clue. But that’s not a major thing. I can do with or without – but I like a little from time to time. Just show me you care, and love.
I also like my own space… so I don’t mind if you have your own interests – there will be things that I like, which you may not (and vice versa) … I want us both to have things we love.
I want to be free to be who I am – and I will want the same for you
Ok so … having said all that… let me also say… if you can get me to the point of truly wanting you – I won’t see any others. I will just want only you.
But again – I have to feel secure and safe… and I have to trust you – I like loyalty, those are your key elements with me. I will take my time, so that I am sure you are not just putting on a front. This is where most fail.
I am not fast… so don’t plan on that. I am a whirlwind though, so careful with that. I am full of life, if I am comfortable with you. I can make you fall in love fast without realizing it… so be careful
I will make you feel good and smile. I will be supportive and loving. I will want to please you and make you smile and laugh… I will want to make you want me.
I want to build a life together 🥰
Once you are past those gates… if you can… no one so far has… but if you can grasp all that, then it would be on…
I am romantic so sometimes – so sometimes slow is nice … take time. Slow will make me ache for you… drive me crazy wanting you… you will be lucky if you can keep it slow.
But sometimes I also like passion… so I will want to have you up against that wall and drive you crazy… I want to make you “want”. I am going to want to excite you. Make you ache… I like to take control sometimes – let me do that and take charge… let me drive you nuts with desire! I like that.
I like experiences, I want to enjoy… I want to feel and know life. I want to know love. Show me that … and the world will be your oyster ✌️
I am on the traditional side… I give a girl next door type impression. And I am like that… but in private with someone I love, respect and trust… I want this…
Anyway… that is me lol… my best friend is different … she is, NOT AT ALL, like I am… complete opposite of me…
She is NOT cautious… and will openly “taste the rainbow” yeah Oh my god! Totally not like me!!
She admit-ably likes assholes and arrogance 😝 yuck … but I suppose there is someone for everyone.
She is looking for devotion but she is not devoted herself.
I never like the guys she picks lol ugh!! Nope!! I always tell her be careful… she doesn’t really pay attention cause she likes what she likes. But it doesn’t bother her, is a thrill for her – she lives on thrill. She does not mind. I do – I am way above and beyond her, with caution.
She does not have the same heart that I do with this… every woman is different, so know the one you want. ✌️
The fire you play with, is the fire that could burn you… a good fire lights up in the heart … provides light and warmth… it won’t hurt you… it will light your way and protect you…
A bad fire is like a forest fire and will consume you. Pick your fire 🔥 smartly.
I may not be right or what every person is looking for… but this is how I am and what I want 😘✌️
Just like with men – not all are the same… there is a variety – know what you want ✌️
So whatever … if I find that, then that would be incredible… but if not … I still love life and I am still happy …
I am already complete with who I am… I don’t need anyone to complete me… I only want to want you … you would be a bonus to my life, my icing on the cake. You would be an addition to my life, which I already love ✌️
I am a dreamer so possibly just a dream… and also nothing is ever exact or perfect – but that’s what I like and “would like” to have.
If I “don’t” feel safe or that I can trust you – you have no chance. If you are not serious or like to play games – I’m not your girl. Playboys need not apply.
Oh yeah and one other thing… I need you to be confident in my love for you… if I want you… I will ONLY want you… it won’t matter who hits on me… so don’t let that be an issue for you. I am hit on alot – if that’s an issue and I can’t make you secure with it – there will be problems.
I am the same – if I trust you. That’s why trust is so important to me… let me let my guards down with you. If you are used to straying and can’t be loyal – you are not the one…
I want to be united so that’s a thing too. I am open to life with you – but only if United.
So if you can deal with all that, then bring it 😘✌️
I don’t find it overly difficult but whatever maybe it is? I am from 100 years ago anyway lol ✌️ … I have a young spirit with an old soul
Got it?? Good! 😄✌️😘