So that was different …
I had reservations going into this…
He does have a lot going on in his life. Which is good because even though mine is nice and peaceful – I work a lot … but then the stuff he has is pretty heavy but they are big legal things due to a family thing.
Well anyway – the lunch date …
So we were to meet at 11:30a … he tell me to meet him at our little tiny airport here in town …
I parked and there he was … was good to see him – he gave me big hug – before I meet with him he asked me does it hurt you if I hug you ? Lol
He ask because he knows about the breast cancer – no it does not hurt me to give hug… unless you put me in a vice grip then maybe? lol but that was thoughtful he asked so ok …
So he takes me over to a plane and shows it to me.
He show me a lot of the plane and then we got in 😮 I sat in cockpit 😮
Ok so that was pretty cool and then he say ok ready for lunch? Buckle up 😮
So we flew to some airport that had a diner right next to runway … and we had lunch – took us about 15 minutes to get there so not too far away but would have been far by car. Was cute little old school diner – was nice
And we got to talk some, he seems like decent guy. I enjoyed the time and convo … we talk about serious things he dealing with – which is heavy stuff but nothing bad – just because he has many things going on. So I understand more – and I understand he coming from business perspective with a lot of it…
We also laughed and enjoyed the moment so that was cool. He did not try to make any moves or be inappropriate – he was very nice 😊
He say to me about emotions again but then midway through he showed softness and emotion so I teased and reminded of his words lol ✌️ see how that goes ? Lol … you can not NOT be emotional. Some things you just gonna be softer with. And that’s ok. Emotions are ok to have lol
Even if you tough man. You gonna have emotions – just go with it lol ✌️
Also… I am emotion queen with reading peoples emotions – that is ok… but I am not the one you should claim not having emotions to – see right through that. You can’t be stone – there will be something in life you are soft with. ✌️
It’s pretty incredible to fly in the cockpit lol… he also flies very nice – excellent control of aircraft and amazing landings lol very cool
I had a good time … was fun and yeah ok maybe little impressed – alright fine
He say he wanna take me all these places, like Monterey or Santa Barbara – but ya know people say many things. – I don’t put it past him lol … I can see why he loves to fly though.
I have never been flown somewhere for lunch and then back – just for lunch – but that was cool.
I’m still not sure totally – I just go slow… he seems ok with that. I’m just really cautious, but we had fun today – that was an adventure lol
When you are up there flying – you do not see the propeller lol … it only showed on pictures – they also look bendy but they are not
Was beautiful day too
Was nice – I was hesitant cause we have not spent one on one time together – but was fun and I enjoyed … so alright
Ok so… so far I like him
He is tough guy but he’s sweet and gentle with me
He is trying to read me lol … but that’s ok I’m trying to read him too??
I talk and stuff … and am honest when I do speak… also I’m just a little on guard… just cause I am learning who he is.
He’s all tough lol … but has sweetness, or a softness
We did speak about stuff – he was over seas … we didn’t get into anything heavy duty cause I just don’t know him yet and that’s really personal
He did speak about how he feels towards a man who will hit a woman lol … not a man … totally agree!! 😊 he does have a lot of women family in area and he is good to them
He’s a little businessy lol … but I do like him so alright maybe
I still feel distance though – I’ll just learn who he is and I’ll be more at ease
I had fun today – but I do need to know him more.
He did make me smile and laugh – he is not sure how to read me yet, so he steps carefully 😊 I like that. He wasn’t all overzealous or crazy… just nice and chill – I like that a lot – but he’s careful – asking if ok to hug and stuff … he make sure I was happy and having good time – he loved showing me the plane – I did not know what to look at first and I don’t wanna touch something and have it go bad lol but it was fine … a lot of harnesses … 5 point? I strapped in!! Lol
He tell me what he doing as he doing it – was cool
So yeah ok fine – little impressed – that was fun
Ok so – we still see
Don’t go thinking anything – let me just see
We were gone only for like 2 hours – he is very respectful – I also like that ✌️
So far he do ok – I like him so far he does well.. but let’s just see … let me just know who he is
So we still see
Was one date so we see … I am attracted to him but that means nothing … I just want to know who he is.
Yes he was sweet and funny and awesome – I had wonderful time …
But yes – I want to know who he is as person.
Anyone can show you an amazing and fun time… but who are they generally ? So I just need to know that – one date doesn’t show you that – so we see
I just want to go slow. I’m still seeing