Ok so I see how to know if ready or not… would I introduce this person to my children?
I am protective with ownself so… imagine with kids… I do not shelter them, but I am mother bear, and just no one ever meets them, except my inner circle
So would I introduce this person to my children?
No. I wouldn’t – I do not know him well enough
I am not comfortable with who he is yet – I don’t know him and he doesn’t know me or my life. He pulled the really fast card – and I am way slower – I can’t do fast at all … makes me think you are trying to hurry so I don’t notice something
I think of country boy … and I know him and who he is as a person …
Would I introduce him to my kids? Ha hmm 🤔
Well yes for the person he is, because I like who he is… but I know him for years – and no … he has never met my kids
I won’t do that until I am comfortably sure and at ease.
If I let you in my life like that – then you special to me… but those are my heart pieces, so you can’t come close to those until I am ready for you to.
That’s if anyone gets that far
I know country boy and I are NOT on same page – I know that.
But I want something and I don’t think we understand each other so… I love that he stays in my life because I do care about him, and I feel at ease with him -since know so long. And I’m comfortable with the distance he never complains about – I know he likes me because he still messages but not for any reason – maybe to remind me of him? I think he does that
Just usually if someone doesn’t want to be in my life, or I am not on same page with- I don’t keep them
He has always been kind, so I’ve been allowing that since he isn’t an asshole. Appreciate the friendship a lot
And I’m aware of his past too, so I am understanding. He is kind so I am ok with him – he is gentleman
I’m gonna need understanding also.
Would I let him meet my kids ?
We are not on same page so is just a no… I do not have to think about right now
I’m kinda guarded with that on both sides – with kids to meet someone who comes in my life 😮… and then with the person because if I like them enough to introduce – I hope would go well
So… I would have to be absolutely solid for that to ever happen
So I found my way to know… would I introduce to kids ?
Now it be easy for me lol … nope nope nope lol … I’m kidding – I will TRY not to be that way 😳
I just can’t make promises – that will be really difficult to get to!!!
No one has ever met them – only my inner circle people ❤️
Remember – I have a village … they lift me up when I am down, they make me laugh if I am sad, they help even when I don’t ask
I have most amazing people ❤️
So I can be protective and protected ❤️
But with that question I might be even harder?? But eventually, if in my life.. that will be a thing
So… I am ok taking time – I want peaceful for rest of my life so we see 🙏🙏
And then the question – how would I tell my kids I seeing someone 😳😮 Omg
I did not think of that.
Ok well – I don’t have to think of it at this moment
But now that I mention – now I think of that 😮😳
So this is difficult 😞
It does not really balance my life at all – it throws it into crazy even more than I have normally 🤨
When it can feel like balance to my life and ?? Fits? Then we see
I dunno – I just can’t go through what I went through ever again… so if attempting to come in my life – I don’t know
I definitely can not go mega fast – if you make it go too fast I will bail… nope 👎 can not handle fast
Also I have a village… so person would have to meet them too … so that’s also a thing …
Can you survive it?
No one ever gets that far to see because they go way too fast!!
So you have to make it TO the village, AND through the village lol ❤️👏🙌✌️
Anyway … ahh …
So maybe someday
Yeah see – how you gonna get through that? 🤷♀️