So I know a new person 🙌
They are from India 🇮🇳… so of course I asking a ton of questions lol …
I was not sure how he fit… but he fit amazing!! it takes a special type – he has it!
I’m so excited – he’s gonna do great!!
He has wonderful personality and sense of humor that you do not expect lol 🙌❤️ he has a calming and peace to him
Anyway like I said – I’m grilling him about India lol … because I am curious 🧐
I want to know what is differences and I learn 😮
So of course I live in America… we have huge portions of food… tons of food… check out our top killers in America – is heart disease right up there – obesity … unhealthy foods and things
He tell me your healthy foods in India are cheaper… well here in America it is opposite … the healthy stuff is the most expensive … the healthier it is, the more expensive it is. (The almighty dollar always!)
But if you want fatty processed foods – those are cheap cheap cheap
And we talk about Indian food …which he say you can do without any spice? Yes? I don’t know if my tummy be ok? So he say he make and we see lol
Oh and he tell me this funny thing… when he got to America and went to Indian restaurant – he was like “what is this?” Lol because it was creamy when isn’t normally creamy … he says the Indian food is Americanized lol … yes I am sure it is…
Yes as Americans we take your food and Americanize it lol … ✌️ we do that to everyone lol
But don’t areas of the world take American things and cater them to that society… I have seen documentaries about things we don’t have offered at McDonald’s… but is offered only in other countries lol ✌️
Don’t you change our foods to your tastes?
And then on another subject… if you have a person who dies and has no money or no family or anything…
He said India takes care of each other – everyone pitch in little bit money to help, he say you just do. ❤️ he also say funerals are not as expensive as they are here in America
Here in America of course, it is an industry. You could do a GoFundMe … but generally is left to next of kin
It costs a lot of money for you to come IN TO the world…
And it costs a lot of money for you to leave the world. Sadly … that should not be the case but it is
You are looking at thousands of almighty dollars 💸 cremation cheapest…but still some don’t even have that, is sad 💔
If people are homeless – how the hell they afford a funeral? So yeah… you would become ward of the state and be in hands of coroner and public administrator.
Is much nicer to take care of your people. 🙏❤️ that is heartwarming
You don’t see that here… why? Because is the almighty dollar always.
Also everything here is commercialized – everything – because yup – you guessed it… the almighty dollar ✌️💸
He said India does not have same issues we do
I so curious about everything!
But yeah he fits right in!! He found his peeps lol ✌️
His sense of humor and timing with it is perfect lol … well mostly lol …
Because Sunday morning bright and early he send group text of just “good morning” lol.
Funeral people are always on alert lol – so maybe morning greetings little later on Sunday mornings and we don’t normally do that lol …
We just put out overnight activity
He will learn – he already is!!
We do sometimes do memes lol 😄❤️✌️
Lol… so my business – is one where I just say “you gonna be thrown in the fire” …
It is right of passage lol ✌️😄
So on his first day – we were not too sure … he wore too much cologne and it’s overwhelming at first to be at funeral home and we sometimes forget that cause we running all around ✌️
Well so …day one – we were like – will he survive? Lol
But we politely explained that we have sensitive families so maybe tone down the cologne… you can wear it… just don’t swim in it lol 😘✌️
So day 2, he actually comes back lol … and then his test begins lol…
The director had to leave for service, so he had to man the funeral home all by himself lol
The director was gone for about an hour and a half …
In that time, there was flower deliveries, package deliveries, families showing up, phones ringing and he did something to the alarm system and set that off lol .. all at the same time
But ya know – sometimes is crazy like that- he handled it like a pro… but he was funny … because when the director came back, he immediately goes over to him and says “you would not believe the day I have had” 😄😄😄
We say to him… hey!! you on day 2, you can’t say that yet lol … it was just funny – he has wonderful temperament and sense of humor
He will fit in perfect!! Also.. since he speak Indian he huge asset! He already help with language barrier for us ❤️
So let’s see if he survives lol … welcome to death 🤗
I’m excited – he very funny – and he picks it up quick… very smart.
See – just keep me smiling and never make me cry lol ✌️😘❤️
Ok … so there is all that going on…
And then I have the picnic on Saturday 😮
He called me today to talk about that lol…
It still sounds fun, I like his personality.
It’s a picnic ❤️ yay!
We each bringing things and I have to say… what do you not eat? Lol
He say he eat whatever – hmm 🤔
If you ask me that – do not bring sushi or fish – nothing from the sea! No! 😝😝 ugh and even the smell yeah no
I will make potato salad and bring sandwiches 🥪- he can bring dessert 🧁 and drinks 🥤 … and some fruits and veggies for snacking
And then we deciding where to go? 🤷♀️ well I dunno lol … if you ask me that – I am more fluent and familiar with Lake Tahoe … I always just think North … I never think of south
I do love the southern area below me… also very beautiful – I just don’t know that area well. Not my territory lol ✌️
So… where to go. We just have to decide that now lol
Ok so what if this actually goes well? 😮
How I gonna do that? Ok… one moment at a time ✌️
I’m excited … but it weird ? So??
All of it weird… how we meet – how we click… it just happen
He’s quite bir older 😮… maybe 15 years or so ?
But we see … there could be red flags 🚩 I do not know yet. We see
So far he does well -definitely A on the effort!
He is totally not overwhelming me, which is good
He just hands back does his thing and then text me once in a while and called me tonight
So ok – he’s pretty chill – not stalker style type…so we see.
Ok well I wrote that last night and then fell asleep – so here ya go lol ✌️😘
Ps… also if anything I say is incorrect – please correct or elaborate so I know ✌️😘