Oh boy …

So one of my girlfriends 🙄😐 is single again … this one is crazy wild 😮

At 6am… she call me, but I was about to jump in shower 🚿… I let go to vc mail… not work – no one’s dying – I don’t want to be late lol ✌️

So then she texting me anyway, about some new guy she meet and things I do not want to know in general never mind in detail 😮 I do not want to hear anyone’s sexual life stories lol – I’m good 😮

I like those private – it makes me squirmy in BAD way – I do not need to know every detail. 😮 or want to – please don’t tell me

Ugh now I gotta hear that until she finds a new boyfriend

And then that is also a reason I do not date. Just reminds me guys dick around …so ya know? I’m good

She goes into massive detail 😐

So what do you say to someone who’s too over your head with that ?? Way too over my head and I don’t wanna know or have any images thank you

Totally don’t wanna know anything at this moment lol … is not my head space 😮

Not really now or ever – to me that’s private and between 2 people

I’m probably a prude 😮😮

But that is every phone call and every text and you do not know the level of details 😮😮

So how you politely say stop? Or as a friend is that ok? Not really cause someone is uncomfortable and stressed by ?

Plus I have to go to work – I don’t want to be listening to that before work

Is that rude ? I just can’t – is too much

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  1. It seems like your friend is sharing too much personal information that makes you uncomfortable. It’s perfectly okay to set boundaries and express your discomfort politely. Let her know that you value your friendship but would prefer not to hear the explicit details of her romantic life. You can also mention that you have work commitments and need to focus on that. It’s essential to communicate honestly and respectfully in any friendship.

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    1. Yes absolutely on the communication – but I also want to be a good friend

      But that does cross a boundary for me 😮

      I will tell her

      Thank you for the opinion ❤️ that gives me ways to think of how I would like to say this

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  2. I think those who overshare the ins and outs of their sexuality – excuse the pun – do so out of anxiousness and sharing is a way of reducing that, but on the other side it is also about over stimulation the pleasure zones, ‘aka ‘she feels so good she needs to tell the world about it! The other alternative is she is just sex positive and doesn’t realise that not everyone wants or needs to hear the sexploits and isn’t feeling as liberated as she is, but Shanky is right – you need to explain to your friend that you have boundaries of what is and isn’t acceptable. It has nothing to do with being a prude.

    I am very open about my sexuality BUT l don’t share that with everyone, because it can make people feel very uncomfortable. Just be straight up with them and say you are pleased they are happy, but you don’t need to know all the intricacies of their intimacy with another.

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    1. Yes HIGHLY sex positive 😮😮

      I like it light… maybe some laughs about stuff or something – or for advice or something like that is fine …

      But not intricate details Omg 😳 I really don’t wanna know – I want nothing in my mind to know anything with her intimate relationships ✌️ too much communication for me

      I agree – I think how to say and then let her know PG-13 – I could also handle possibly VERY mild R… but I’m telling her PG-13 lol ✌️

      But no XXX

      Thank you ❤️ I do agree is just weird subject to embark upon and it’s all of the sudden because they just broke up and she’s already lined up new one 😮

      Once one occupies her… it isn’t so bad cause then she’s busy with him … but if she is unoccupied I get to hear about everything in her dating world 😐😳 in massive detail 😳

      She’s a little wild – she is my wildest friend

      I don’t mind being there for her and am her friend but in that area I am more private with.

      I will think of how to tell her 🙏✌️

      Thank you 😊❤️

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      1. It took me a while to get to grips with the rating system – l see whilst basically the same, there are some differences to USA and UK 🙂

        Ours are ‘U’, ‘PG’, ’12A’, ’12’, ’15’, ’18’ and ‘R18’

        Yours Are Rated G, Rated PG, Rated PG – 13 and Rated R

        How fascinating 🙂

        I think America’s simplified versions are much better than our complicated.

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      4. How is Britain compared to other European Countries? Do you match with them or is everyone different? 😄😄

        They must all be different ?? 😄

        I just checked Canada’s and they have a mix of Britain and USA 😄😄

        And I don’t understand Mexico “at all” with their movie ratings – is even weirder 😮

        Interesting 🧐

        I didn’t know we were all different with that lol 😮😄

        I should know that the world does “nothing” in unison 🙄 … unless there is a deadly virus 🦠 but even then … every country had their own story they told their people 🙄🤷‍♀️

        But that’s interesting because I didn’t know everyone is different in movie ratings lol

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  3. umm..its definitely complicated. I guess she should be able to guess that you are not that interested in knowing the details. But if not then I believe she won’t take it lightly if you say directly to her.. she may feel hurt or may feel you don’t support her.. which is obviously not true.

    I am amazed you have no interest to know the details because I know so many people who fry their brains all day by pampering and gathering details from the lives of their friends and close ones. Truly an insane world. I am like “dont you have a job????”

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    1. I mentioned to her that I don’t like such in-depth details about such things, and during week I am doing funerals and going through things – I’m very busy! I can’t have my phone blowing up with non work issues

      No she does NOT have a job – she needs one …but then she wants job to cater to what she wants – she walks in and tells them right away “I can’t do this, this is what I need” etc etc

      I tell her you can’t do that, jobs won’t hire if you come in giving them conditions 😮 she wants to work when she wants 🙄 like she is queen or something lol … jobs are not gonna go for that

      If someone came in giving me conditions right off the bat – I’m gonna be like “next”

      I want hard workers – no slackers or not serious

      But maybe there is a slacker job somewhere lol ??

      I don’t mind hearing about my friends stories … funny events, if something makes them mad, or happy, or sad – I will listen

      I just don’t want any sexual details. I’m very uncomfortable with her in-depth detail

      I’m a more private type in that area. ✌️

      But no she has no current job, and now has some distraction and wants to just share every detail 😳

      I’m not that person 😮

      But yes I did tell her I can’t handle.

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      2. Ugh … no she didn’t

        🤦‍♀️

        She called me about 3pm … but my work phone was going off and I was in middle of many things

        I just sent it to vc mail.

        I can’t not hear all about sex while I am trying to work… so whatever – just send to vc mail

        🙄🫤

        I just can NOT!! Ugh 😩

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