Ok I have a moral question. I am torn. Oh I don’t like this stuff 🤨
Since it bothers me… ok let me just tell you…
Alright… so I adore everyone I work with.
There is this really awesome girl. She works really hard, she’s a good person, good heart… means well.
She is slightly forgetful? But I don’t think is truly forgetful… they dumped her into position with no training and she’s handling 3 locations – that is 3 separate jobs.
But she is one person… and they come down hard on her
She is sweet. I really like her. I want to keep working with her.
Ok.
Then one of those locations has girls I also adore … but umm… they come down like a guillotine on her!!! They are ruthless
I understand they get mad their things aren’t done ASAP… and some is on a time limit … it’s hard because that girl is one person working 3 salaried jobs
We are short staff all around.
That one location doesn’t like the girls at another 🤨🤨🤨
I try to make them understand she doing 3 jobs. But they are out for blood?
I just??? Ok so… there was a check… that had been given to us a month ago. But needed to go directly to bank in person… check reader would not take it – it had to be in person.
I dunno… the girls at that one location found the check on her desk… oh so they were mad and here we are
They scanned the check… emailed my other girl, and cc’d the bosses 😮😮
So… do I call her and tell her look I don’t know what their problem is here, but I don’t want anyone sideswiped?? That’s not right. I just have a problem. 🤨
Fricken women and corporations 🤨🤨🤨
So what do I do? Do I call and warn her? Or just stay out of it?
And is it gonna bother me if I don’t say something? 🤨🤨 But she may have already seen the email. Ugh 🤦♀️
What would you do?? What’s the right thing to do? Give her heads up or stay out of it? Cause I don’t want to be a problem starter either 🤨🤨🤨
She has probably already seen it right? What would you do?
I just enjoy all these girls 🤨🤨
And I don’t want to get caught in the middle or take sides 🤨🤨
So what do I do???? 😳 🤷♀️
Learning Life 
Life is not 2+2= 4 my dear. We need wisdom 😊🤗
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Well, I just wish people weren’t so mean to each other. Can’t we all just enjoy life?
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You can never ever change anyone my dear. You be kind and humane 😊🤗
Happy Diwali 🪔 💖🪔
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Oh yes I know that. I never try to change anyone… don’t need to… you be you, I will be me lol
But I don’t like to see other people hurt when isn’t right
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Hope you decided one way or the other
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I did. I had decided to sleep on it and then see her the next day. She knew already, when I mention
I just told her to be careful with them.
Sometimes those other girls are really awesome and sometimes they are just vicious.
She did know already. Boss is back thankfully 😊
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Good result!!
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Yes… ish 🤨😄🙄
Ohhh work life 🤨🙄
So far this morning – I am alone!!!! Wooo hooo!! ❤️❤️❤️ ahhhh
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Well, it was 😉 You were able to retain your soul without alienating anyone!
Enjoy the peace! 🙂
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Lol I hope so 🙏
Busy today – taking minute
Hope you enjoy your day ❤️✌️
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I have no idea!! I lean toward telling things but that’s because I have a big mouth (on the bright side, that causes people not to realize I’m keeping tons of secrets because they think I can’t).
My first hope would be to talk to a boss about the girl being overwhelmed and picked on. Try to get her some slack, or help.. understanding, etc.
If that’s not an option, since you’ve already talked with the girls, I’d try gently talking to the one who’s overwhelmed. See if she realizes the others are undermining her. Give her an option to talk freely. Maybe she’s also frustrated and looking to leave (can’t get unemployment if you quit but usually can if you’re fired). Maybe she needs help with some things. Maybe you could talk to Corporate together.
Staying out of it is the safest option. But I lean toward compassion, esp when the employer sucks.
Annd… the State Labor board is still an option! Maybe she would be interested.
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So they trying to repair everything at work? Is stable… sort of. BUSY!! But hmm seemingly stable or balancing there lol
Monday already – it’s going to be insane day – Mondays need to stop!!
Oh we have each other’s back. And manager knows
Ugh 🤦♀️ shes is really stressed… they are heavy on her – I like her
Anyway I have to get ready for work 🤨😞
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If nothing else, I like to encourage stressed people to use me for venting. It distracts me from my own frustrations and builds trust when they know I don’t rat them out later.
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Yeah I do the same, and they do. Is same for me…
Ahhh offices 🤨
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I’ve been wondering how that plays out now for offices where everyone works from home.
I know one friend who needs to fire someone she hired cause the woman just isn’t stepping up to the job, even after extensive coaching. It was already a difficult situation because they were friends (never hire your friends to work for you!) and now harder due to the less frequent interaction.
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Oh that’s tough… well if they can’t handle the job and ya know trying to survive.
That’s a hard situation.
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