Who you are…

I do believe it’s important to be who you are. One of my girlfriends taught me that, made me see that really clearly. I learn alot from her …

She’s very different from me… this is the one I didn’t think I could handle because she is so far outside my ?? circumference? Lol – I am lacking a better word there, but you get the picture? – we different lol

Everything about her is different from me… and vice versa… We are night and day.

Yup we do clash in moments – but our clashes aren’t bad … yes we are passionate about our beliefs, but we also accept and respect each other’s views. She has brought much to my life ❤️

I didn’t think I could handle her because of how she came at me… in a small way I felt like I was being courted? I wasn’t sure lol … she gave me chocolates and made me smile lol ❤️😄

I was really quiet when she came into my life, I was going through cancer and all the deaths, my ex was being brutal… I was just really quiet. Kept to myself.

She came in really fast, lol… I typically do not do that… I need to see who someone is.

Ok well she did that 😳😄… came in all hot and heavy … she laid out all her shit to me right away – boom here it is 😮😳 little bit of a shock to the system lol

But ya know what? I loved that … here she was wanting to be my friend, and she just laid out everything to me

I had to absorb it, because I AM so different than her… she kinda knew that? She laid everything out to me, and then gave me space to process it ❤️ …she stepped back and gave me time, but still let me know she was there

Her stuff would make me panic if was mine. And I have different views than she does.

But ok – here I sat with all her dirty nitty gritty… can I be ok with it?

After I thought about everything… ya know… I don’t have to guess with her. What I see is what I get – period. I love that ❤️

Even I don’t agree or like what she says or does… I still don’t ever have to worry… I know what I get with her – she’s like a breath of fresh air in that way? No matter what it is, she is honest with me ❤️ She also has a strength of steel that is captivating to me??

We talked about those first friendship moments and she said she laid everything out for me because she would rather me know her dirty dirty right away… because if I was gonna run, she would rather that I run right away before she got attached to me. ❤️

That was deep to me. I am a runner… she nailed it… very smart woman… So I like that. That had to be terrifying to lay it out and see if someone can accept it. But also free’ing?

I kinda zone in on things I like about people… or how they operate with things… if I’m impressed by something or like the premise, I will try to learn from that? To enhance myself??

I also do not want to be attached and then find out is wrong… so I kinda lay it out too?? Not really like her – lol… she smacks it down on the table, I gently place it there with humor lol ✌️😄

My things are not like hers? We are different …

For her… she is judged because of her actions and openness? She’s extremely blunt and possibly a little scary lol

I am more?? Softer? Also from like 100 years ago lol ✌️ I feel more like the movie “Blast from the Past”?

www.youtube.com/watch

https://youtu.be/9_mi3qoA_QY

I have been hurt so… I am way more cautious with people… where she throws caution to the wind and sees what sticks…

While I am not like that lol… I am still cautious … but I do like that I never have to question her? There is a peace to that ❤️ I don’t even have to think about trust with her because I am comfortable with who she is?

And then on the other side of that… she accepts the way I am too ❤️ I never have to worry there either and I can be free with her… that is soo comforting ❤️

We are there for each other without question!!!!

She’s definitely one of my best friends ❤️ she enhances my life completely ❤️ I am blessed having her in my life!!!

She will be a life long ❤️ I see her as family because of who she is and what she means to me ✌️