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Well I am overcast and chilly this morning! 🤨 My forecast says sunny – where is my sun?? It also says my high today is only 68 🤨… when can I put away my winter clothes?! Oh my god! 2 sets of clothes out is taking up so much room!!! Big bulky winter clothes and …well ok, my summer clothes don’t take up much room lol 😄✌️

But still brrr… for a California person who gets spoiled with a small taste of warmth… yes I’m cold… right now is only 51!! And windy!! I don’t wanna turn my heat on. Brrr

Oh well – I’m just cold and without sun at this moment.

I have a girlfriend who is ??? all about dating usually… she was texting me last night because she dumped some guy she was dating.

She always lectures me about giving a chance but then I get to hear this stuff lol … I’m kidding I don’t mind listening.

I knew this guy was not right for her… they don’t live together or anything… they were just dating.

I would say she is a serial dater – goes through guys like water 😮 I don’t know how she lives so umm?? Fearless with that?? Oh my god! There is no way I could do that.

I try to figure out how her fearlessness works… but I have no idea because then she tells me about what she goes through and the break ups – oh I just can’t do that!!! I am not that type.

She is completely opposite of how I am. Where she is fearless – I have fear … but in areas I am fearless – like laughter or being outgoing… she has fear?? Weird huh?

You know what it is? She does not take the time to know a person before she jumps!!! She just jumps 😮😄

I don’t even stick my big toe in lol

I have to know the person I’m dealing with and I have that trust thing… I wanna be at ease – the way she does would give me a heart attack everyday!!

Anyway… she was upset because she broke up with this guy… but I guess when she did that, he went off on her. (All of this was done through text)

She is stuck on his words ?

He wasn’t right for her though – I didn’t like him. Right away I got a bad vibe with him, and then his lack of communication and respect – yeah I didn’t like him lol

I told her “look let me interview them for you” lol 😄😄 I only tease because I’m so hard on that stuff and she is not… I could interview and if they pass by me – they golden lol ✌️😄 good luck lol (again I only tease, kinda, cause that would work better lol … maybe? I am hard)

She has massive emotional swings!! Yeah I don’t want that!!

In the beginning, she’s all completely enamored by some guy… and all she talks about is whoever it is and how amazing he is or looks… ok whatever – I just listen.

But she’s excited and happy and pours her whole self into it. Lol

I keep telling her – no see who they are first!!! She just loses herself in a man. 🤨

Ok so perhaps my perception is jaded or cautious – however you wanna say it… yes!!! Because you should be cautious!!!

So then after her extreme happy “honeymoon” phase… it starts to cool off …

Then I forever hear about what’s going wrong, what his problems are 🤨 all of it… and when I say “all of it” – I MEAN ALL of it!!! I get to hear all about their sex life 🤨😝 and everything!! Oh my god! She does not hold one thing back!! Not one!! Lol whatever – again I just listen

I am a lot more private. Like night and day lol … you will never have to hear me speak about my sex life (or lack there of) lol ok maybe a little, cause I just said that ✌️ … but I am just severely private in some areas – no one needs to know if I am freaky or not lol (totally kidding but serious at the same time)

Not her lol … Oh my god! Even on the phone she turns my face red lol whew ok

See I don’t even need to date lol… I’ll just listen to her do it lol

Anyway… so she has the extreme happiness, then that wears off… issues come to light…

And then the final dump 🤨

Oh my goodness… the dump is the worst cause she does not handle well… even if she does it!!

Sometimes she will be completely devastated or like in this case …

She dumped him … but he said mean things on exit and now she’s obsessing over his words.

If a man can’t handle a break up like a gentleman – and be mature – not worth the time of your thoughts… sorry I don’t play … not worth it… next

Anyway… I think the emotional highs and lows she has – IS FROM DATING!!!! Yeah I’m not doing that!!

I like my life nice and balanced … I like peaceful. I don’t wanna have to deal with crap.

I am open-ish lol… to giving a chance maybe? Lol… but I dunno – I want peaceful and I want ?? I just don’t want crap

I know nothing is ever perfect, but I do know what’s right for “me” … I need slow, I need to know someone – I need to know I’m not going to be hurt and I need to know they have a good heart. I severely pay attention to how someone is, how they act… not just right away… cause guy will put on fronts to try to impress – nothing repels me more than when you TRY to impress me… relax don’t do that, I’m not that type of girl… I just wanna see who you are normally.

If you take your time, then you get to see who someone is, and your choice is smarter. For me anyway. I don’t want blinders on, I’m not fast… I don’t wanna see a mask – I wanna see who someone truly is.

She is opposite of me and runs right into the fire 🔥 … I run away from the fire and grab the hose lol

It doesn’t take her long to get right back in the game.

I just want quality over quantity.

She wonders why she can’t find quality… because my dear – that is rare. Like buying a lottery ticket … you get all excited – I’m gonna win this time!!! … as they draw the numbers, you are let down as none are yours lol… and then you are sad you didn’t win. Same thing.

Instead invest that money – take your time, learn what is best for you, see what options are – invest the time, let it grow… see ??? Smart lol

Whatever. I’m just different than her… and I certainly don’t want emotional rollercoaster 🎢 – I am way too old for that lol (seriously though)

But ya know – I guess she enjoys it lol … so whatever – whatever floats your boat – be happy!

I’m glad she dumped this guy though – he was a jerk (and I’m only being polite – not the word I want to use)

She might go crazy in isolation now though so we will see lol … oh well … I will just listen ❤️✌️

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